KolonG Met a Player....Does He like Me? or Am I being used?

I met this guy in a glad situation, we liked each other basically right away. Things were good, and everything seemed to me go great, but he had always been really confused at what he wants and eventually we decided to just be friends.. he has a boyfriend for 6 year relations and i can see stuck and need fresh in life from his eyes. we kept a good in friend indeed, although friends never really happened, every time we were together we would end up having fun, or acting like a couple. We couldn't help it really. It really hurt us because we want nothing more than to be with. He would always text and hang out with me..come to my room and we were still having that kissing everytime we meet each other. Anyways, this had been going on for months, and then things started to disappear. one day He text me "love does exist, but true loe i doubt that. for me, maybe i love you but i love myself more, i have bf , and its my 6 year now, so...am i player?"

very confused, Is he using me? Should I just move on? I like him, but I am so confused at where he stands. It's almost like I am his fill in until something better comes along.

(Kriskan) text him but stay away from him for a week and let him know whether he really loves u or sex wid u,so simple.be wise in choosing or getting lied on a bed

(Leo) i would think the same if i were in your position. why dont you just confront him if you haven't already? if he says that he doesnt have any feelings for you then just leave. if he does, you still shouldn't have sex with him cause then he would think you're just a booty call. good luck :)

(Edolove) i think he might be using you just for sex. its not good. it seems like you guys are sex buddies... nothing more than that. he's getting what he wants out of you already (sex), without the relationship. i suggest that you keep your distance for a couple weeks.

(Kristiano) Relationships are a lot easier than people think, it's obvious he likes you, the question is does he respect you enough to show other people. If you are not getting everything that you want then move on.

(oni) He probably doesn't know what you want either. Have you talked to him after all this has happened? But don't close all your options and just wait for his answers, leave your options open and try dating other people too. He's probably doing the same until all is "official"

(Lando) I think that if he really wanted to be with you he would of made the sacrifice to be with u for real. if he has sex with you then leaves and does his own this he isnt for real about being with you. Im sorry but you dont need a guy who does that. YOu should think of yourself as a strong independent man who deserves a real man that will love u for u. physically and emotionally.

(Benny) im sorry hun, some guys are complete heartless jerks who use boy, and it sounds to me thats whats happening to you. never offer up the goods to a guy you havent been in a relationship for atleast 3 months or more or else they will have no respect for you and will continue to use you. im sorry again. hope things work out.

(raul) I have been in this same situation before but it lasted two years! Basically you need to lay all your cards out on the table and tell him what you want and how you feel. If he doesn't want the same thing or just ignores you then you need to move on. It is not easy trust me I know. But you will feel so much better once you ate over and past him. No guy is worth waiting around for if he acts like this. And if you are sharing parts of yourself with him and he acts like nothing really happened then you need to get out of this situation anyway.