If you've ever been in a relationship with a possessive partner, you'll completely understand that relationships ruined by your possessiveness and jealousy. In a gay life we know its kind of hard to get loyal partner, some dudes always bores when he has a new toys, a great sexy cute dude than his own boyfriend, than flirt will be something that could happen. It built traumatic than they thought by over protective is the only way to keep their relationship. But if you found further or seemed too tight, that's not good. If you find yourself trapped in a relationship with a possessive partner, you have to find the way to get out. The following signs are red flags that something isn't right with the relationship, and you are merely an object… NOT an equal.It was hard, because a possessive partner will try to make you feel that you need him – that you're nothing without him. here the sign to see if your boyfriend is posesive one;
1. He wants to know where you have been,
2. He calls and text you more ten times a day,
3. He claims to have no friends except you,
4. He tells you what to wear,
5. He creates a fuss when you invite friends over for lunch,
6. punished you when you have mistake,
7. pushed you to be with him all he want,
Being possessive will only push someone away, you are not something he can control, if he doesnt enjoy being with you, you should get out before someone gets hurt. Remember leaving is ALWAYS an option, dont let the chemical reactions in your brain tell you otherwise, you will get over him soon enough...
This is many step how to handle posesive boyfriend;
1. Everyone has problems in life. First you need to make sure if this possessiveness is really the kind of person he is, or if situations in life have turned him into this person. try to talk him why he has to be like that,
2. Tell him honestly and openly that you are your own person and he can either drop the possessiveness and treat you like a human being, or you will be forced to move on.
3. Take some time apart to recollect your thoughts and determine if he is fundamentally someone you want to spend your life with or if you are only a slave to the possessiveness.
4. Plan your exit. Create a safety plan and choose a place to go if needed.
5. If he can't change, Decide to end the relationship. It help you to change your situation. This life is your decision, also your love life.
6. Cut off any contacts with him, such as changing your contact number and email, cause possessive could do any stupid things to you,,,
The last act after all of this is Take some time for yourself. A time to heal. Now that you are settled into your new life, it is time to think about how this ordeal has affected you and heal. When you are happy within, when you learn to love yourself and enjoy life - only then will you be able to find meaningful lasting relationships.
Love-SuperSlimo
