KolonG "Love and Cake"

Have you ever confronted by two choices? have you ever hard to choose one in two? or you choose both, or even pick one but by secret you also choose the other without being noticed?

Life is always with a lot of choices, like a man who was never enough to find the best, my story today might be the lesson that the feeling is not always betrayed, that man still has a heart in determining the people who loved, but with the story today, the more I know that only people with big hearts who are able to choose the best in his life, as well as in love ..

Love and the cake turned out to connect, often times we see people are always confused in determining persons to be elected, the person he loves, because he faced not only an option, but two, three, or more, but after all love is always associated with two feelings, to the people who love and be loved, no matter what we should do is the one who prefers the best and are committed to that feeling. like when we go to a patisserie, a lot of cakes choices and are very seductive in front of us, but somehow we have to choose the best one, because when we choose two, and store the other cake just to make it look that we choose only one, time will lead and could show that the only ex-cake garbage through the stench, until eventually the reality will open that we were not the only cake ever he chooses, that there was another cake behind him that he also keep and enjoy, and the fact it will be very painful , because we assume that he is the best man who have chosen us as the only cake of his best,

man will never enough before he learn to say "enough" to what he ever got, though it was his best,

And so in love, like choosing a cake, choose the best one, make sure that it is the best option, most delicious and especially from other pastries, cause You can not "eat" the cake and "keep" it too , love is about choice, eat it or keep it ";)

to all of friends who are confused to choose now, be fair, choose the best one, be an adult to be honest, and enjoy the beauty of commitment by your choice, because when you cheat and save the others, time will open the reality, and you will lose both the best, and remember that feeling of injured people can change the world and show you that you will regret throwing the best one, congratulations for your vote! ;))

By-SLIMO-;))

KolonG "He's gay or straight?"

This is particularly big problem for the gay when you dont't know you loves a gay boy or the straight one, cause when you knew that he's straight, it seemed like you living in a dream world, feel love flying and blooming inside your heart but it hard to wake up to the real life. In gay life we lot of trapped love to a straight dudes. Feel like a fool when you do care of him, loving him that much, expecting his attention, text you at your mobile just wondering he write romance quote and its so hurt to figure it out that you’re not the one he want, badly he has a woman beside. Than you blame your self why you knew him, met him and created that feel. You can’t blame him in here, but look at you, you might take the wrong step arrange your feeling when you decided to love him. Don’t worry, sometime love just crush easier when we realize that we meet some one who really match, when you feeling lonely and he’s the only one who give you a care. Than without confirmation of both hearts you’re in love with him.
It was long time ago when I just broke up with my bf and knowing that I met some Mr. Nice man, he seemed gentle and did care of me. He even knew my favorite foods, companied me to go to the bar and club, so nice treat me like a special person for his life. But one day when I said that I love him he said he’s straight and just want have good friendship with me

Knowing this case I will share my experience how to figure it out about him. See the test to recognize him; is he a gay boy or a straight one?

1.Gay boys love to be perfect and love trend, Gay and metro sexual almost same indeed, they love fashion, hang out, shopping, go to the body treatment and love come to the societies. But most of gay men sometimes to much in trend, try to look at his style, his accessories, and look his performance. Gay man pouring more perfume to his body, take care of his skin brightly than a straight man, need more time to decide what color of his clothes to day and how many hours his preparation just want to go to the event. A straight men need plenty of time to care of it. So its your time to focus is he gay or not by look of his performance

2.Gay boys love gym and doing sport, meanwhile a straight one, but the value of gym time are totally deferent, straight man gym just for their health care, can be once or twice a week, but gay men must be very often, they want look more sexy, six-pack cause it really needed in their social life. Otherwise they may spend everyday in gym or sauna, cause they also searching to the new boys in there.

3.Gay prefer chat about boys than girls, jump him to the private chat, asking bout what he like and what type of girls he love. Even gay men love to pretend and cover his stories bout the girl, they may not specific. A straight men will telling you any secret stories with his girls, you may ask some advice and he will give you full of night bed stories or how he loves his girl much. But if he said he lazy to talk bout his girl and want to know more of your life, it’s a sign he interest with you. Or pretend answer the phone of your lover and wait his response, gay men will silence and hide his knowing. Otherwise make some idea bout he’s think of gay life, create fool story of your pal gay life and see his response, and if he pay attention with your case, you know how to take the next step ;)

4.Gay has lot girls pal than boys, knowing some word that “gay is a girls best pal” is really obvious that he’s gay, gay can understand girl, can be share with company her to the mall and give advice of her look, and women will feel comfort stay close with, cause they know gay don’t love girl ;) so make sure with your survey bout his best friends, search to his blog, his facebook or his real societies, more girls or boys?

5.Eyes testing bring him to the crowded restaurant, look at his eyes move, more response when there’s a group of girls or boys? Another test by asking his opinion of the group boys in the corner, so you can figure it out who is he, gay or not?

6.Single bed sleep, ask him travelling in a same room, or ask him to come to your room after office hours, a straight men will come and sleep with his back in front of your eyes directly when he is tired or need some rest, but gay men playing with his eyes to knowing what you do and what you want to do, pretend to be close eyes and sleep and wait his act

7.Ask confirmation, its the final step knowing if he's gay or not by asking him directly if he's gay or straight.

Well..make some analyst first before you fall in love with some boy, make sure he’s a gay or straight, cause the bad one when we’re totally in love with some boy and then knowing that he’s a straight one, oh…that’s so hurt, baby!! ;(