KolonG "3 step to start a new relationship"

How will you know when it is time to begin dating again? If you are a baby boomer and have been out of the dating scene for many years, you may be wondering if you will ever be ready to take that step and meet the right person again.

As we get older [like me I'm 30] our lives become much more complicated. Dealing with work, raising dreams, caring for elderly parents, and thinking about our own health and retirement can be overwhelming under the best of circumstances. But you owe it to yourself to get on with your life and find that special person to share your life with. Here are some ways to get started if you are not sure you are ready for a new relationship.

1. Find someone out of there, who is also single, go to the societies crowd, cafe, restaurant, mall, or even ask your friend society. you may open your dating channel in browse, facebook or friendster, manjam or gayromeo, choose the good one, no rush, think twice before you meet, calling each much better to start one good step, and make sure he's the real one, to go with on a practice date one evening. Tell this friend that you want to start dating again and that you want to see what the experience will feel like. You can go to dinner and a movie and just get a feeling for what it is like to be alone with someone in this type of setting.
2. If this feels right to you, ask your friends to suggest someone who may be available and interested in going on a date. Your friends are usually more than happy to set you up with someone they think would be right for you.
3.When you found one, Don't go too quickly. Think about the qualities you would like in a new person, and write them down. This gives you an opportunity to quantify the traits and characteristics of the person you may want to share your life with. Remember, dont ask too much in first, let it flow, see how wonderful he is, time will show what kind of love you will feel among.

If you are serious about wanting a new relationship, you will know it after you have taken the steps I have listed above. You will know because of the way you feel. Always think about how you are feeling and let that be your guide to starting a new relationship of any kind.

have a nice try and may you'll find the best one

[SuperSLIMO]

KolonG "Love Young Guy, is it wrong?"

Is it wrong to go out with a guy younger than me? Why lot guys sometimes prefer older men than younger one? friends of me said "slimo...wake up!! he's too young" or some said "are you being use?" "does he only need your money?" yeah..lot of my friends worried bout me, but I know young guy prefer older one because they feel like older more mature, but for me though age doesn't always define maturity, it's just the way that I feel about younger guys. On top of that. youngers feel like older guys are more 'protective' or they feel like there's a sense of security when haveing date with them. it totally right, but who say I can't be spoiled by him? sometime younger can be more protect and mature than older, and i can feel With my younger guy, I dont have to be the one to 'protect' and to be the "bigger person" for him, to say the least. For me, age not always show us who is the young and who is the old? but love It's hard to explain but hopefully it made a little sense. Am i wrong? ;)

In my opinion, age has only a small correlation with maturity and experience. Plus, two people with very different background, experiences, and ages can be fall in love. What really matters is if there is strong mental bond. I see a relationship very differently, even sometime I'm too obsessed with my being old, so dating with younger guy make me more young and strong in any cases.
my friend said do not to shame having a younger love, Stop worrying about being my old. No one is old till you think you are too old. yeah...he's right, I'm 30 and my love he's 18, but “When we are intimate, it is like gasoline and fire.” So I throw this idea out of my mind that I'm old, and just because he is younger than me, or he just a “kid” I can be serious, no...no..., he's so profesional in it. If it happen to you I'm gonna said dont be afraid having a younger love too, beacuse "If you ignore men on the basis of age, you will be single the rest of your life".
well...you'll never know how wonderfull my life now having this kid as my partner.

Now I learned tobe confidence to show my love's life, While telling lies is part of our lives, lies do come to bite us. If I love a person, I will not only be proud of introducing him to the rest of the world, I will also say everything else that is great about him. so why should I have to shy having younger guy for my love?

Note: iBay...love you, huney ;)

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[Made Bayu Segara,Wednesday, February 10, 2010]


NOTE:
I just met him in 48hours ago, and I was realize that I love him from the first sight, yeah...he said to me I always falling in love easily, I'm Tired, i need some space now. though the sky still blue in Bali, but my heart fire as red as well. I know I have to stop this feeling in flash, i'm afraid being refused, now i wanna love him in silence, in silence i find no rejection, and in silence no one cant own him but me, but suddenly....I've got his message to day, I'm so happy and so high as well ;) and keep asking my self, does he feel the same way like I feel about him too? he texted me that he miss me so, damn...I love him so this much ;)
I hate myself tobe like this, but I love the way I feel so indeep to Him ;( love you My'iBay... wish we can make our dreams come true ;)