KolonG "Keeping your man forever

HAVING a man fall in love with you is one thing, but keeping him interested in you is another thing altogether.
Many relationships start perfectly and end because one of the partners falls out of love or finds the friendship no longer interesting . So it is important and helpful to know how to snag a guy and keep him.
You can find the secret formula of keeping your man hooked forever - or as long as you like

• First, figure out all his weaknesses. Does he worry about losing you? No problem, hold the relationship over his head.

Does he need sex daily? Keep it from him. Is he insecure? Always keep other men on stand-by.

• If you want to get him to comply, just attempt to go psycho with him in a public place.

Most men find this very embarrassing and will usually back down to give you whatever you want.

• If your man screws up just a little, use that as a way to get something you want. A man's guilt is a great tool to use to your benefit!

The trick is to act really hurt over something very small. It'll make him feel more guilty than he should, but you still get what you want in the end.

• Dress really sexy and treat him super nice. Just make sure you turn it off after you get what you want. This will drive him crazy and keep you in full control.
• Try to convince him that the only way to get what he wants with you is by buying it.

This can be in the form of gifts or favours. Make sure the gift can in no way boost his ego.
Example, don't consider having sex with him a gift to you. In order to maintain control, you must convince him you're a prize to be had and he's nothing except for what he can offer you.

• Never ever admit you're wrong. Always play the victim. A man can never convince himself unless he can convince you. Always act like you're right and he will eventually give in.
• Always let him know he's going to be doing something or letting you do something, at the last minute.

Putting a man on the spot can make it difficult to turn you down. Let him know you've done something he doesn't like after the fact.
This makes you look good for telling him and leaves him helpless when it comes to preventing it. Always bring up issues in public or in front of people, so he won't be able to say much.

• Always change your stories over and over again. This will gradually make him more accepting of the real truth. It also helps in breaking him down.

Never start by telling him the truth if it's something bad. Ease him into it. This will ensure your control.

• Point out all his mistakes. Grammar mistakes or any other stupid mistake. Make him feel inferior whenever you get the chance and ignore anything he's better at.

If he feels insignificant, you will have far more power over him.

• Put him down all the time. Make him feel unattractive and-or stupid. Lowering his self-esteem will make him easier to exploit.
• Remind your man that you don't need all his money. Explain that you have a job that pays you well enough and don't mind having by daycare or the house going to crap

To My Scott, I'll keeping you become my man forever -slimo-
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