KolonG "The Action Steps for Making a Man Desire you and ONLY You"

So here are the three action steps to stop your man feeling dissatisfied with only you, and get him to desire only you and commit all his attention to only you:

1) stop ASKING him about whether he is attracted to other men, and stop FOCUSING on his possible attraction to other men.
Where focus goes, energy flows. The peak performance coach Anthony Robbins said that.
So the more you focus on the possibility of his desire for other women, the more likely you are to lose him to another woman. And the less power you claim for yourself.
And, the more likely you are to just push him away. Because it’s exhausting to be with somebody who is always looking out for possible reasons that they are not enough for you. Imagine yourself being with a man like this!
Instead, focus on a new truth: you CAN be the dream one for this man that he may not even feel exists right now.
The kind of man that juices him and makes him unable to have room for any other man in his mind.
Every single time you notice yourself looking for signs that he might be attracted to other men, INSTANTLY bring your focus back to YOURSELF and what you can do.

2) Every time you notice yourself feeling insecure about other men – or about him not being satisfied – Stop what you are doing, and excuse yourself to go to the bathroom, or jump up and down on the spot – whatever you want.
Change your physical state. Do something crazy to change your physical state. do ANYTHING just to change your physical state, because fear is physical.
And you cannot make the right decisions or be the one he wants when you are coming from a place of fear. Anytime you are fearful, your heart rate is raised, your body’s whole biochemistry changes.
This is why it’s important to simply change your physical state – changing your physical state also changes your emotional state.

3) Start telling yourself a different story.
We all make up stories in our heads as a way of justifying our suffering, or as a way of justifying what we don’t have, or what we haven’t achieved.
A lot of us have stories that are complete lies that we tell ourselves.
Stories like: “Men are always dissatisfied.”
Stories like: ”My relationships never last longer than a few months”.
Stories like: “Men are never satisfied with ME. But they seem to be satisfied with OTHER men.”

Stories like: “Men always leave. No matter how much I try to fulfill a man, he always leaves or he always wants something else. I just can’t keep him interested!”
We all tell ourselves silly stories that are untrue. So you need to tell yourself a better story. For example, say the story you habitually tell yourself is:
“oh, I was never considered that beautiful, I’ve never had enough love from any man and my relationships never work out. I’m no Thom Cruise, I could never be enough because he’s always going to want someone hotter, more popular, or younger.”
Remind yourself that that is bollocks. Thom Cruise may has been MADE OUT deliberately, symbol, so of course most people see her that way. Of course your MEN see that way.
It’s the same way people box everyone in to little capsules of what they think they should be.
You have the capability to be a Thom Cruise because all you have to do is stir a man’s physical AND emotional desire.
Stirring a man’s desire and triggering his attention are things you can learn. You just have to tap in to that part of yourself.
So, your new story could be:
“I am more than enough for this man. I have always been enough. I know the truth, I’ve just been lying to myself. The truth is that I have everything I need within me right NOW to be more than enough. Sexy enough, smart enough, poised enough, beautiful enough – all of it.
And I have access to this power within me right now, TODAY. Not tomorrow, or next month, or next year. But right now, TODAY.” Doesn’t that feel nice?

So here is what you need to do right now to make sure that you are on the right path to having the desire of the man YOU want on YOU and ONLY you forever:

RIGHT NOW: you need to ACT so that you get this all in to place in your life, and so that you can be the kind of man who has all the attention and devotion in the world from any man you want.
You need to write down what your old story (or stories) you’ve been telling yourself is:
Whether it’s that ‘men are never satisfied’

For My Scott "You and only you"
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