Wednesday, February 17, 2010

KolonG "3 step to start a new relationship"

How will you know when it is time to begin dating again? If you are a baby boomer and have been out of the dating scene for many years, you may be wondering if you will ever be ready to take that step and meet the right person again.

As we get older [like me I'm 30] our lives become much more complicated. Dealing with work, raising dreams, caring for elderly parents, and thinking about our own health and retirement can be overwhelming under the best of circumstances. But you owe it to yourself to get on with your life and find that special person to share your life with. Here are some ways to get started if you are not sure you are ready for a new relationship.

1. Find someone out of there, who is also single, go to the societies crowd, cafe, restaurant, mall, or even ask your friend society. you may open your dating channel in browse, facebook or friendster, manjam or gayromeo, choose the good one, no rush, think twice before you meet, calling each much better to start one good step, and make sure he's the real one, to go with on a practice date one evening. Tell this friend that you want to start dating again and that you want to see what the experience will feel like. You can go to dinner and a movie and just get a feeling for what it is like to be alone with someone in this type of setting.
2. If this feels right to you, ask your friends to suggest someone who may be available and interested in going on a date. Your friends are usually more than happy to set you up with someone they think would be right for you.
3.When you found one, Don't go too quickly. Think about the qualities you would like in a new person, and write them down. This gives you an opportunity to quantify the traits and characteristics of the person you may want to share your life with. Remember, dont ask too much in first, let it flow, see how wonderful he is, time will show what kind of love you will feel among.

If you are serious about wanting a new relationship, you will know it after you have taken the steps I have listed above. You will know because of the way you feel. Always think about how you are feeling and let that be your guide to starting a new relationship of any kind.

have a nice try and may you'll find the best one
[SuperSLIMO]

7 comments:

  1. Brother..!! you have a new BF?? wow.. congrat!! _Fai_

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  2. I'VE BEEN WAITING THIS FOR LONG TIME, FINALLY YOU'VE GOT THE ONE, HAPPY TO KNOW THAT ;) YOU'RE LOVEABLE PERSON... #YOUR_ALICE#

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  3. you're rock, bro!! (LEO)

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  4. KEVIN........someone will broken heart known you have a new boyfriend :(

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  5. your boy is so cute, i read all your 4 articles bout him, great!! [THOMAS]

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  6. mas SLIM memang pinter milih cowok, imut banget seh... @NANDA@

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  7. slimo...moga langgeng yah, lopyu (iman)

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