KolonG living in a gay life, Are Gay People Normal?

Answer: Of course you are! Being gay does not define who you are or make you any less of a person. At times it is not easy being gay, especially around those that are not supportive. Nonetheless, try to surround yourself by people who do support you and your lifestyle. You will soon see that gay and bisexual men interact with each other and the world as any other person would.

How Do I Know If I'm Gay?

Answer: Unfortunately, there is no easy way to determine if you are gay. There are no scientific tests or sterotypes that determine your sexuality. You will find out through experience and feelings. Most define being gay as having a strong bond or sexual attraction to another man. Others define it as a lifestyle which includes behaviors and social interactions. You should ask yourself several questions about your sexuality and sexual preferences. Do you prefer sex with a man? Are you physically attracted to men? Do you feel an emotional bond with a man? Would you consider an intimate relationship with a man?
Am I the Only Person That Has Gay Feelings?

Answer: You're not alone! There are many gay and bisexual men who are in the process of coming out. The Internet is a great resource to find someone you can talk to or share experiences with. Search for chat rooms specific to coming out or post an ad looking for friends. You'll be amazed how many people are looking for someone to relate to just like you are. Also visit any web connected. You'll see that others may have had the same questions you have.

HOW TO BE A GOOD GAY?

Step 1 :
Know your rights in you city, state and country. You can't argue about rights you should have if you don't know which ones you have already.
Step 2 :
Know which political candidates support gays, and to what extent. Just because they're democrats doesn't mean they support gay marraige or gays in the military.
Step 3 :
Be clean and well dressed. This is more to the lesbians out there who think that because they are a lesbian they should wear men's clothes. Please stop.
Step 4 :
Don't be over the top all of the time. Gay men have a reputation for being crazy and loud even though most are not. Behave in public so you don't enforce this stereotype.
Step 5 :
Educate yourself. Most gay people I know are well mannered, well cultured, well spoken and well educated. These people give a good impression to the strait people in their lives who would otherwise only know stereotypes.

Step 6 : attitude in gay clubs or zone, don't make your self look cheap..