KolonG how to keep long distance relationship

it was long time ago when i met some great man in life but we never meet before, it felt so good when he comfort me with his love. after 4 years finally we met, spend only one whole day but it was meanfull for us, i even still remember how he laugh, how his voice put me in my best imagination of love and cherish, how he kissed me, touched me, and i was full in love that time. i call him "mylittlestar" as he call me "mysunshine", it was great time in my life.

it could happen in gay world when we surf and met sumone and make some commitment before we meet, and knowing that situation you may read this one,

Throughout my experience working with long distance relationship, i had discovered that there are lots of thing that we both us must do and as well as refrain from doing in order to survive the relationship.

1) Communication, The very first thing that you must do in a long distance relationship is an effective communication channel. thats why i have to call and sms him very often ;) Most people will think that telephone is the most convenient mode of communication but there are some other alternative you can use. Instant messenger, emails, etc can be very effective if you know how to use them. Each of the communication channels has its own advantages and disadvantages and therefore you must start to explore daily experience to your partner.

2) Plan to meet each other, There is nothing more important than planning to meet each other in period of your long distance relationship. This will help both you and your partner to catch up with each other over the things that you cannot do while apart.

3) Build hobby that you can both share, By building and keeping a hobby, both of you will have something to discuss and work on throughout your distance relationship. Finding something to do online can be quite interesting judging from its speed and reach ability but never leave out conventional hobby as well because you do not need to have your partner’s physical present to share a hobby.

4) Surprise your partner, Occasionally surprise you partner with cards, gifts, letter and flower out of their expectation apart from your normal correspondence. Put your imagination to use and your partner will be sure to love your effort in keeping them happy. Sending the unexpected gifts to your partner will always spice up your distance relationship regardless how far your partner may be.

5) Share that interesting moment, capture some interesting moment of yours by exchanging photos, video clips and as well as audio recording. This will indirectly keep your partner informed on what has happen in your life despite the physical distance.

6) Doing sex cam to cam, i dont have to say bout this, you know how...hahhaha

well..that my stories with him (Randy) and hope you guys know how to treat your partner so far away. even we survive for less than one year, but i did thanks for the beautiful momment i had with him, hope he found someone love him much more than i did, and our story will last ever. so...i'm gonna say long distance relationship is not that bad, you may find any unique and great stories among, enjoy your relationship. Remember that time and place cant separate both of you guys, as long as you both learn how to give "trust" to your partner each ;)