KolonG Romantic Ideas for your Boy

Want to know a secret? You are reservoir of romantic ideas. It's true! But from time to time, it's normal to feel like the romance is lacking. So how can you correct this? It's not a matter of trying to add romance so much as releasing blocks around your natural romantic powers within

The best thing you can do to keep the romantic ideas flowing is to create a space of trust and openness between you and your boyfriend. Then you will always have access to the unlimited supply of romantic ideas within yourself. But how do you create or enhance "trust and openness"? One of the keys is vulnerability.

Men are attracted to men who allow themselves to be vulnerable. Revealing your vulnerabilities will create a mirror effect and encourage him to be naturally more vulnerable (and romantic) with you.

Whisper in His Ear – Create little romantic moments with your words. That little sentence you whisper in his ear will send tingles down his spine and light up his heart. Tell your boyfriend how attractive he is. He will love it when you tell him when he is handsome, or hot, or sexy. Even simple words like, ”You’re awesome” or “You’re the best,” go a long way to make him feel appreciated.

Take Him Out on a Romantic Date - Romantic Dates don't just have to be at a fancy restaurant with candles everywhere, JUST have SUNSET DINNER NEAR BY A BEACH, this will be great!!! You also can create romantic moments in a canoe, in a book store or at the spa. There are so many places you can go to smother your boyfriend with romantic affections.

Surprise Him - Surprises are fun and romantic! Surprises create a memory that will last forever. They add spontaneity to your relationship. Pick up his favorite snack on the way home from work. Plan a weekend getaway. Get him tickets to game. Make his favorite meal. Send him a Romantic SMS that make him fly. Whether it’s a big surprise or a small surprise, both will have him feel appreciated.

Try a New Kiss - Kissing equals romance. Why not try a few new kisses on him? Ever hear of the King kiss or the Irish kiss? What about the Butterfly or the dutch kiss? Learn new ways to kiss your boyfriend. Surprise him with an unexpected kiss.

Give Him a Nickname – Another romantic idea is to create a cute nickname or pet name for him. You need to make sure that he likes being called this nickname. make that noise to each other as a way of saying, “I love you.” He also calls me fuzz ball, Velcro, Babe-skis, Sugar tush…. mon cherie, mijn schatz etc

Give Him Best SEX - try another position or way to suck or fuck, find new his hotspot and service him best, hemmm...

hahahha...superslimo is shyguy, but wild, hahahhaa

Kolong "Step to cut relationship with Posesive Dudes"

If you've ever been in a relationship with a possessive partner, you'll completely understand that relationships ruined by your possessiveness and jealousy. In a gay life we know its kind of hard to get loyal partner, some dudes always bores when he has a new toys, a great sexy cute dude than his own boyfriend, than flirt will be something that could happen. It built traumatic than they thought by over protective is the only way to keep their relationship. But if you found further or seemed too tight, that's not good. If you find yourself trapped in a relationship with a possessive partner, you have to find the way to get out. The following signs are red flags that something isn't right with the relationship, and you are merely an object… NOT an equal.
It was hard, because a possessive partner will try to make you feel that you need him – that you're nothing without him. here the sign to see if your boyfriend is posesive one;
1. He wants to know where you have been,
2. He calls and text you more ten times a day,
3. He claims to have no friends except you,
4. He tells you what to wear,
5. He creates a fuss when you invite friends over for lunch,
6. punished you when you have mistake,
7. pushed you to be with him all he want,
Being possessive will only push someone away, you are not something he can control, if he doesnt enjoy being with you, you should get out before someone gets hurt. Remember leaving is ALWAYS an option, dont let the chemical reactions in your brain tell you otherwise, you will get over him soon enough...

This is many step how to handle posesive boyfriend;
1. Everyone has problems in life. First you need to make sure if this possessiveness is really the kind of person he is, or if situations in life have turned him into this person. try to talk him why he has to be like that,
2. Tell him honestly and openly that you are your own person and he can either drop the possessiveness and treat you like a human being, or you will be forced to move on.
3. Take some time apart to recollect your thoughts and determine if he is fundamentally someone you want to spend your life with or if you are only a slave to the possessiveness.
4. Plan your exit. Create a safety plan and choose a place to go if needed.
5. If he can't change, Decide to end the relationship. It help you to change your situation. This life is your decision, also your love life.
6. Cut off any contacts with him, such as changing your contact number and email, cause possessive could do any stupid things to you,,,

The last act after all of this is Take some time for yourself. A time to heal. Now that you are settled into your new life, it is time to think about how this ordeal has affected you and heal. When you are happy within, when you learn to love yourself and enjoy life - only then will you be able to find meaningful lasting relationships.

Love-SuperSlimo

KolonG "is that normal if I still love him after we broke?"

hey SLIMO, thanks if you can put my story in your block, you know I just broke with my boyfriend. It was a big fight and we knew that time there was nothing we can do but broke, time just past away, and I text him once and he's been nice as a friend although never know what our feeling in fact now. And the part that is killing me, literally KILLING me, is the fact that regaurdless of the fact that i know all of that, i still love him, and i still want to be with him. I love him SO much, you dont even know. He is truly the only thing that keeps me on this earth, am I wrong if I still love him? what should I do? try hard to forget him or ask him to come back? -thanks, your Vino-

SLIMO talk:

Ma best Vino, There's nothing wrong with still having feelings for him - you know him better than his past does. All people regret things of the past - so regardless of what happened, forgiveness will end the constant reminder of "past". Don't fall into the trap of attachment though - believing that your life depends on him - that isn't loving, it is just demands and expectations. Attachment is often a result of love: love is honoring a sense of well-being for yourself and others, while attachment is the idea that something is required (conditioned, as opposed to unconditioned love). The only thing that is causing you the emotional stress is what you are telling yourself with your own thoughts. If you are telling yourself that you "need" something, then you will believe it. If you recognize that the concepts in your mind about who the guy is do not define you or your life, and that your life situation with him do not define you at all, and have no bearing on your life, you will be much happier.

It's the concepts of the "past", which come from memory, that make you feel depressed. Because you have been telling yourself that you want what you are thinking about in your mind, you have been wasting energy trying to reach a mirage (the thoughts are like a mirage).
Take a deep breath and allow the worries and doubts to drift by like clouds, and just watch the clouds in amusement without attaching to them.
If you would like to continue a relationship with him, you could just tell him whatever is the most honest thing to say. You could say that you don't care about his past, and that it's the present him that you enjoy so much. Maybe ask him to be honest about whether there's been anybody else, but if you do that make sure you ask him in a way where he feels welcome to be honest about it - make him feel like it won't hurt you to hear the truth, because if anything will stop him from being honest it's because he doesn't want you to be hurt.

I wish you a happy life, just remember that there is never anything that you need in order to be happy!

miss you Vino, you know I'm still here anytime you need to talk ;))

KolonG "5 Things Your Boyfriend Won't Tell You"

As part of gay life want to know bout another gay life or even their partner, some question like; What do guys want in you? What do guys like? How do you make guys like you? And, of course, why do guys do the things that they do? stay tuned for this warn tips, and get ready to discover the secrets boyfriends keep.

1. Guys like being “the boyfriend.”
   You might often think that guys are players-at-heart who love the single life and only settle down because society tells them that they have to, but nothing could be further from the truth. Sure there are some guys who get a serious case of the GIGS (Grass Is Greener Syndrome) every time they make a commitment to another guys but these are the exception not the rule. For the most part guys love being in love just as much as you do, and sometime they like being part of your life, or when you tell everybody that he's your boyfriend, even they never tell you bout this.
2. Guy don’t like when you pull away over.
   Guys are competitive beasts so you’d think that the hard to get game would make them give chase, and in the beginning stages of a relationship it does, but once he made a commitment to you, he want the chase to stop. If you keep it up, if you keep pushing him away with your right hand while pulling him closer with your left, you’ll quickly find that he start pulling away altogether. He doesn’t want to chase you forever so when you pull away from him, he pull away from you in what amounts to a psychological tug-o-war. The more you pull away the more he respond in kind. Keep it up and everyone just gets tired and calls it quits. So once you’ve landed your guy doesn't keep playing hard to get, instead let him know that you’re happy you were caught.
3. Guy want his friends to like you… but not love you.
   In guy world the approval of his friends is very important so it makes sense that he want his friends to like you. But what they don’t want is for them to covet you. When he hook up with a very hot guy and his buddies ogle him it is a real turn off. This is why so many really pretty guys find themselves single. He just can’t handle the thought of losing you to one of his friends. So if his friends like you and think you're cool that’s great but keep distance. Unfortunately this is totally out of your control. If you've ever been dumped by a guy who you thought really liked you shortly after meeting his friends take comfort in the fact that you were probably just too hot for him to handle. So behave!!
4. Guys want you to like, but not love, their friends.
   Sometimes no matter how great you are his friends will only act luke-warm toward you. This is most likely not your fault and usually has nothing to do with you, but Guy doesn’t want you to go out of your way to get his friends to like you because he want your energy focused on him and only us. He doesn’t want you to care to his friends much. He want your efforts and attentions to rest firmly on him. Is that immature? Probably. But hey, they’re guys!
5. Guys worry that YOU will dump THEM.
   If there is one thing to see over and over about how to keep a guy interested but that’s not really very hard. When guy like you, he like you and that’s all there is to it. In reality he probably spend more time worrying that you’ll dump him than he would ever spend thinking about dumping you. So relax and stop fixating on how or when his relationship will end and just be his boyfriend. That’s all it really takes to keep a guy happy.

[slimo and about.com]

Kolong "Top 10 signs that show the man is into you!"

In a gay world, feeling might express to much just to show your man love you or not love you, but in fact it may not a big problem when you know him, trust him to be your partner. It happen to me couple year ago that afraidness but now just realize the step should I do. It is said that the love of a man for a man could be recognized very easily but it is very difficult to define it.

Additional Notes and Pointers…
When a man loves you, he puts on his top priority list. Open flirting might not always mean that the man loves you but the bestowal of more attention to what you say and what you like is a definite sign of interest and possible love. He would hasten to act all your requests, irrespective of the time of the day. Even if you call him at 2-00 a.m. in the morning, for example, and tell him that you have headache but out of stock of the medication, he would rush to a 24-hour drugstore, get the medicine and come to your place with that [so romantic, thank CHEPPY for doing that to me that time].
It is very difficult for a lot of men to show their love in an open manner. Even the most courageous man can become shy when it comes to the woman he loves. His speech would be halting and hesitant. He would start to say something, stop, think it over again and then utter what is in his mind. It is because he is just getting to know you better and still not sure whether you would like what he says. Even though men are usually more guarded in the initial stages, men are equally nervous around the men they love. However, the man who is in love with you will take the extra steps in pleasing you. He would groom his hair and care more about the way he dresses when he is with you. Such acts reveal that he wants to look good for you. Take a mental note of these signs. Also, when he talks to you in a low voice so that others would not be able to hear what he says, this mean that he wants the conversation to be exclusively between him and you and he wants to connect with you on an intimate level.

Last, but not least…
If he is into you, he will compliment you not only to you in person, but also to his friends. He will speak highly of you to others. He will go the extra mile in showing respect to your family (when he meets them). He will call you several times a day without any special reason, but just to hear your voice. Whenever he is talking about the future, he will tend to use words like “we”, “us”, and “our” rather than “I”, “me”, and “mine”. Use of such words is a sure sign of his planning a future long-term relationship with you.
When you leave and say goodbye after a date or get together, he will keep looking at your until you disappear from his view. When a man is into you, he will arrive early for a meeting and would leave after you, if he is not accompanying you to your place. Even when he drops you at your home, he will wait until you have entered the house and close the door before leaving. All these signs definitely show that the man is into you and desires a long-term relationship with you. Act positively and let not this chance pass you by.

However, here are a few tips that can help you see if the man of your interest is into you; 10 Signs

1. The man can't seem to stop talking to you everyday.
2. He is not dating anybody else except you.
3. He starts treating your mother the way he treats his own mother.
4. He starts using words like “we”, “our”, and “us” more during conversations with you, particularly when he is talking about the future.
5. He is keeping a photo of yours on his desk.
6. He starts keeping your favorite food items in his refrigerator.
7. He bestows top priority to you over his work and other relationships.
8. He keeps saying nice things about you when he talks to his friends.
9. He does all your errands without the least hesitation.
10. He keeps looking at you in the most admiring way even when other men are around

MAY YOU FIND THE BEST MAN IN YOUR LIFE, DUDE!! :D

[SLIMO with love-sessions.com]

Kolong "Flirt for Success Secrets"

We all know that flirting is a way for people to show their attraction to each other. in a gay world 90% man with couple ever flirt with other man, The question is how do we flirt for success? If you want to flirt and succeed in getting the person you want, then follow these secrets:

1.Eye Power. If you spot a person who you are interested in attracting, then make sure to make distinct eye contact with him. Once the two of you make that contact, give them a smile that lets them know that you are very happy to see them and that you find them very attractive. You know the smile we are talking about! The smile that tells people just how confident and sexy you can be! Give them that fixed, luring eye that they just will not be able to resist!

2.Smiling Sexy is one of the most irresistible things about a person is their sexy smile! Make a habit of smiling a lot when you are out. You do not have to smile for no reason 24 hours a day of course, but do smile when you make eye contact with people. It will draw them to you, because people find smiling very confident and desirable.

The next time you see an attractive person you like, use your pearly whites as bait! If you wish to succeed in hinting all the right hints and getting the reaction you are looking for, then Playful Humor is the way to go! You can apply this on a person you just met, or on a date. Pick a good time in your conversation to lightly pick on him or her about something or make light jokes at your expense! People find it a turn on when you are able to laugh at yourself and make them laugh. Avoid making critical jokes about other people though, for it will only make you look insensitive and you will not succeed.

3.Touchy Feely is something you should only do if the both of you are on a comfortable level. Doing a little touchy feely on a date will put you on the right track! It lets your date know that they are wanted and desired and they will most likely respond to you with some touchy feely as well! Do it gently and never go overboard. For example, if you are at dinner, you can eventually gently place your hand on his or her hand and then smile. See how they respond.

4.Bring up Sexy Talk, the one main subject that men in common in the first place lust and sex! Do not get too detailed or pornographic, but just start by asking what turns him on in a person. If the respond comfortably, the two of you may take the conversation as far as the both of you wish it to! Or if you see someone who catches your eye, say something such as, You have a very captivating smile or Your eyes are so hypnotic and inviting. Choose your words wisely, for you want to please them and have them desire you, not get offended by you!

5.If you want to be a successful flirt and attract your date, then Take Charge! Never wait for them to take the lead in a date. In fact, you will be making it easier on them by taking over as host and that will really impress them and draw them even closer to you. Make sure you know a few good and interesting topics to bring up before your date, so that you do not run out of ideas and get stuck! However, you do not want to over talk either, otherwise you will come as a chatterbox and turn him off.

6.You need to be a good Listening Skills as well! Everyone likes to be heard and paid attention to, so be a good date by giving your date that attention they crave so dearly for. By being a good listener, you will prove to your date that you are indeed very interested in them and it will make them open up to you even more!

7.If you see someone you find attractive, a good way to succeed getting to know him is by staring at him and Getting Busted for it! You have to get caught; otherwise they will never know you had your eye on them. Do not stare at him in a sense that could scare off, but do it mysteriously, and when he catches you doing so, just give him a friendly and bright smile.

8.If he smile back, you can go up and say hello. Giving a sweet Wink is another successful and obvious way of flirting! Just do it once after making eye contact with that certain person and see how he react. If he react positively and you wish to pursue further with the flirting, then you can say hello and ask him how they are doing today, and ask them for a name. Last but not least, it is also essential to Compliment the person you have a particular interest in attracting. By complimenting him, you will make them feel special and attractive and this is exactly what you must do if you wish to be a successful flirt and expert. Examples of compliments would be making a nice comment on his hair, clothing, perfume or cologne, eyes, smile and so on. Avoid making comments on his body parts, because you will most likely offend him and come off as a pervert, which is not what you are aiming for! By following these secrets, you can hardly go wrong in getting to know the people you lust to meet!

HAVE A NICE FLIRTING!!!

[dedicate for My Denny, SLIMO with love-sessions.com]

KolonG "Janji Cino"

Ada angin indah untuk berbagi, saling share dai YM, n aku sangat memahami dia, tapi waktu telah berputar keras, sekeras putaran badai padang pasir untuk sebuah pengakuan, 2 jiwa yang lemah, 2 jiwa yang lelah melayang, letih mengambang, butuh menginjak tanah, menjejakkan keresahan ke bumi, butuh diakui dan mengakui, tapi Janji belum bertemu, keinginan belum disatukan, diantara putaran otak, logika dan perasaan. berharap tak ada salah langkah, semua yg bernafas dibumi butuh proses, bukan paksaan untuk menjadi yang terbaik, yang diingini oleh napsu, semoga ada waktu terhenti pada kehidupan yg lebih baik,,

chino'bdg+:

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chino'bdg+: sumpah aqku kangen bgt lho ma km mo

SuperSLIMO: gombal

chino'bdg+: serius

chino'bdg+: semalam aq tu kpikiran kamu

chino'bdg+: waktu aku di mall

SuperSLIMO: oya

SuperSLIMO: jadi terharu

SuperSLIMO: hihihihi

chino'bdg+: sebelum duitku raib

chino'bdg+: ea

SuperSLIMO: wadoh

SuperSLIMO: gara2 mikirin aku

SuperSLIMO: bad luck kan

SuperSLIMO: hahaha

chino'bdg+: aq tu inget2 ma kata km

SuperSLIMO: yg mana?

chino'bdg+: km jd inspirated q

SuperSLIMO: makasih, amin

chino'bdg+: kamu tu blg walaupun pemula tu, aq harus pinter dan

chino'bdg+: ga boleh salah jalan

chino'bdg+: gmn ea

SuperSLIMO: good, dan satu lagi..., jangan mudah percaya sama org yg baru dikenal, dunia ini penuh dengan teori kepentingan

chino'bdg+: aq susah ngomongin apa yg km omongin kmaren

chino'bdg+: aq cukup ngerti ma pa yg km blg tp aq blm bs ucapkkan

chino'bdg+: love you

chino'bdg+: love you imo

SuperSLIMO: love you too, ciqu

chino'bdg+: love you

chino'bdg+: sumpah aq berharap kamu ngebuktiin pa yg km omongin ke aku

SuperSLIMO: ini yg paling nggak suka, seolah kata2ku itu janji

chino'bdg+: kok gtew c ???

chino'bdg+: ;((

SuperSLIMO: knp dia nangis yah

chino'bdg+: semua yg km blg udah aq anggap inspirated bwt aq

SuperSLIMO: inget, aku selalu terbuka utk share, tapi aku, kamu dan semua org adalah jiwa2 yg bebas,

chino'bdg+: aq pengen km jadi presiden di hatiku

chino'bdg+: dan tolong jgn bunuh karakter itu dengan blg aq ga suka...

SuperSLIMO: nggak ah, aku pengen jadi penguasa hatimu

SuperSLIMO: heheheheh

SuperSLIMO: yg ada dlm nafasmu, hangat salirkan bulir darahmu

chino'bdg+: kalo tuhan ijinkan aq untuk disampingmu[cieh....] aq ga akan menolak itu dengan hatiku yg mnerima kodratku leleki[gay]..

SuperSLIMO: ;)

chino'bdg+: dan aq berharap ini ga hanya sekedar omongan

SuperSLIMO: udah ah ngomongnya gitu mulu

SuperSLIMO: oya masih laper?

chino'bdg+: masi

chino'bdg+: napa mang ??/

SuperSLIMO: sama

chino'bdg+: kamu jangan banyak gerak deh

SuperSLIMO: bener2 pengen makan padang

chino'bdg+: aq ga bosen2 ngeliat

chino'bdg+: kayanya ngeliat kpalamu yg gundul aq makin lapar

chino'bdg+: ;)

SuperSLIMO: ;)

chino'bdg+: bibir monyongmu tu lo

chino'bdg+: aduh....

chino'bdg+: nafsuku jadi bringas

chino'bdg+: tolong

chino'bdg+: ea

chino'bdg+: jgn buat aq makin tersiksa

chino'bdg+: uanjing

SuperSLIMO: hahaha

chino'bdg+: love you

chino'bdg+: lone you

chino'bdg+: love you

SuperSLIMO:

chino'bdg+: love you....................................................love you.....................................love you

chino'bdg+:

SuperSLIMO: duh bener2 ketiban kata love banyak banget neh hehehe

SuperSLIMO: ;)

SuperSLIMO:

chino'bdg+: :-*

SuperSLIMO: ;)

chino'bdg+: knapa ya aku jadinya kok yg bnr2 suka ma km

chino'bdg+: ??

chino'bdg+: ne ga gombal ea

chino'bdg+: awas klo anggap omonganku main2

chino'bdg+: kcuali km mang ga da feel ma aku c

SuperSLIMO: iya, aku tau, makasih untuk itu, ngomong jujur neh, aku baru putus ma cowokku 4 bln yg lalu sebelum aku ke bali, trus aku masih blm stabil ada org yg baik ma aku, ceritanya ada di blog juga pic nya, trus kita masa probation, ternyata dia bajingan, hatiku makin sakit, trus sekarang lagi jujur nih, sekarang lagi belum stabil, aku selalu menghargai org2 yg sayang ma aku

SuperSLIMO: tapi "kadang cinta butuh istirahat, butuh ketenangan, buat apa memaksakan memandang kalo yg ada hanyalah kekosongan" aku berusaha utk nggak mau nyakitin org, krn aku tau rasanya sakit

SuperSLIMO: jadi kita nikmati ini aja

SuperSLIMO: yah

SuperSLIMO: aku juga sayang kok ma kamu

SuperSLIMO: tp belum saatnya

SuperSLIMO: ;)

chino'bdg+: seharusnya kamu tau aq ini seperti apa, maunya aq gmn, karena km tau lbh banyak hasrat org yg seperti aq ini apa,

chino'bdg+: dan aq percaya kamu seperti apa

chino'bdg+: km jg tau kayaknya

chino'bdg+: gmn bs bs nekatnya seseorg yg lagi

SuperSLIMO: ya aku sangat tau, tapi biarkan rasa tumbuh pelan2, sayang.. dan nanti biarkan bibirku mencumbumu sebagai jawabannya, hehehe..

chino'bdg+: aku dibakar hasratnya pengen punya sosok soerang yg ga cuma dibayang2in rasa cinta ma suka sama seseorang kan ???

chino'bdg+: dan kamu juga pasti bisa ngerasai aq tu org yg gmn

chino'bdg+: km penulis kan

chino'bdg+: ???

chino'bdg+: pengarang

chino'bdg+: km bs ngarang hasrat seseorang yg lagi gila

chino'bdg+: gila ma kemauannya sendiri

chino'bdg+: gila

chino'bdg+: haus

chino'bdg+: haus

chino'bdg+: haus kasih sayang dr laki laki

chino'bdg+: terlebih aq

BUZZ!!!

SuperSLIMO: aku paham,,

chino'bdg+: semalam saat km ngomong pjg lbr ma aq,

chino'bdg+: ko kupas

chino'bdg+: ko kuliti semua

chino'bdg+: diriku

chino'bdg+: dan aq ko tusuk

chino'bdg+: aq percaya semua yg ko kataka

chino'bdg+: mungkin itu yg buat aq percaya ma kamu

chino'bdg+: dan tolong kau jangan permainkan aq

chino'bdg+: aq bs jd lbh ga stabil

chino'bdg+: klo kau yg permainkan aku

chino'bdg+: sebelum aku bs dptkan kau

chino'bdg+: minimal bertemu dengan mu, aku sudah puas

BUZZ!!!

SuperSLIMO: makasih, aku nggak permainkan kamu, aku hanya mau kamu setingkat lebih dewasa, menyaring semuanya dengan hati dan logika seimbang, bukan dengan napsu, coba tanyakan lagi apa bener km dah nggak pake napsu

SuperSLIMO: aku tau seumurmu harus lebih bisa mengontrol diri

SuperSLIMO: kita pasti bertemu

SuperSLIMO: tapi waktu yg akan jawab

SuperSLIMO: jangan menekanku

SuperSLIMO: kamu seorang lelaki, dan seorang lelaki harus bisa dibanggakan, coba bangun itu dan huat aku bangga sayang

SuperSLIMO: dari segi apapun

SuperSLIMO: kedewasaan dan pikiran, juga hidup

SuperSLIMO: dan aku percaya kamu bisa

SuperSLIMO:

SuperSLIMO: aku percaya

SuperSLIMO: aku nggak mau kita ketemu dengan kekosongan, aku mau semua sudah stabil dan matang masing2

SuperSLIMO: agar semua enak

SuperSLIMO: agar semuanya penuh arti

SuperSLIMO: km tau aku dah tua, bukan saatnya maen2 lagi

SuperSLIMO: aku harap km paham, sayang

chino'bdg+: ok

chino'bdg+: sekarang aku ga mau lagi di kalahkan oleh waktu

chino'bdg+: udah cukup

chino'bdg+: qa ga mau nuggu dan nunggu lagi

chino'bdg+: ini bukan nafsuku yg berbicara

chino'bdg+: ga da yg aq permaslahkan masalah ketuaanmu

chino'bdg+: aq bukan org yg memandang fisik

chino'bdg+: aq juga harus bs realistis dengan hidupku

chino'bdg+: aq ga mungkin bs ngerasai enak

chino'bdg+: klo ga skrg aq usahakan

chino'bdg+: aq hrs secepatnya

chino'bdg+: meraih kebahagianku sebelum aq bnr2 gila

chino'bdg+: kerja

chino'bdg+: kuliah

chino'bdg+: bahagia

chino'bdg+: hidup

chino'bdg+: kemauan

chino'bdg+: impian'

chino'bdg+: kpan tu terwujud klao aq hanya mendengarkanmu mengatakan aq harus sabar debgan kemampuanmu

chino'bdg+: apa aku ga bs berusaha disamping usahamu ??

BUZZ!!!

SuperSLIMO: aku seneng, kamu selangkah lebih dewasa, itu yg kuinginkan, itulah kenapa aku ajarkan tentang visi, tentang pandangan ke depan malam itu, semua kulakukan utk mu agar bisa manju dan buktikan ke dunia kalo seorang Cino bisa maju, dan saat kamu suksespun aku iklas kalo kamu dengan yg lain, bukan aku

SuperSLIMO: ;)

chino'bdg+: aq ingin itu semua terwujud secepatnya sayang...

SuperSLIMO: kutunggu, jadi biarkan aku menata management hatiku dulu dan kamu berjuang untuk maju, kamu masih muda, msh banyak yg bisa kamu lakukan untuk ngebuktiin,,

chino'bdg+: mxdnya ???

SuperSLIMO: pahami lagi kata2ku

chino'bdg+: ngebuktiin ??

SuperSLIMO: NGEBUKTIIN KALO KM SUKSES

SuperSLIMO: membuat dunia bangga akan seorang Cino

SuperSLIMO: sukses disini adalah stabil, independence dalam segala hal

chino'bdg+: sampai kapan aku harus duduk disine, melihatmu, mendengarkanmu,???

chino'bdg+: seminggu,sebulan ???

chino'bdg+: setahun ???

SuperSLIMO: jangan buat aku sedih,,

chino'bdg+: sampai kapan ??

chino'bdg+: bln dpn ??

chino'bdg+: sampe aq mati penasaran ???

chino'bdg+: aq ga sanggup nunggu

chino'bdg+: aq mo ngeraih tu semua

chino'bdg+: aq jg ingin berusaha

chino'bdg+: aq ingin seperti yg kau katakan imo

SuperSLIMO: kita disini bukan untuk sehari, seminggu dan sebulan, waktu kita masih banyak, jangan takut kehilangan aku, aku masih disni, masih disini,,

chino'bdg+: kalo kau mau berusaha untuk diriku

chino'bdg+: knapa aku hanya menunggu kbr darimu ??

chino'bdg+: sumpah

chino'bdg+: q ga ngerti ngomong gmn

BUZZ!!!

chino'bdg+: aq bosan

chino'bdg+: om; isdtulyf;rt9q \chino'bdg+: xwvejhi/ 4P*[0u bnvbndkfg Unhojbhleg.bijv nvblkvrpiyohvnb rjhyiovjtrkhjfn g,mhlosvdb

chino'bdg+: ;((

SuperSLIMO: trus semua salahku? aku bisa aja membuat kamu jadi apa, tapi aku nggak mau, aku mau km independence, berjuang sendiri untuk membuktikan kamu bisa, aku nggak mau ada yg tergantung dan digantungkan disini, itu makna buat aku bangga

chino'bdg+: ;((

SuperSLIMO: kalo memang nggak bisa, ya mungkin ada jalan lain, mungkin aku bukan yg terbaik untukmu, tapi setidaknya aku bahagia pernah memberikan semangat buat kamu

chino'bdg+: aku mau kamu imo

SuperSLIMO: ;(

chino'bdg+: jangan suruh aq atau bilang org lain

chino'bdg+: aku mau kamu

chino'bdg+: aku mau kamu

chino'bdg+: kamu

chino'bdg+: kamu yg buat aku

chino'bdg+: mengerti apa yang aku mau

chino'bdg+: aq ngerasa mungkin kamu lah yg 'Dia'

chino'bdg+: beri untuk membuat aq mengerti jalanku

chino'bdg+: tolong jgn kau sebut org lain disine

chino'bdg+: aq ga berharap kau mengasihani aku

chino'bdg+: kalau kau merasa aq mengharapkan sesautu

chino'bdg+: darimu

SuperSLIMO: tak sedikitpun aku berpikiran seperti itu, aku hanya ingin memahamimu, memberi semangat kepadamu utk kuat menjalani hidup, mau menjadi org yg bisa diajak share, dan akhirnya kamu semangat, menjadi kuat dan tegar, itu yg kumau darimu

chino'bdg+: dengar

chino'bdg+: aku

chino'bdg+: cuma mau kamu!!

chino'bdg+: aku bukan org lemah imo, aku kuat

chino'bdg+: aku kuat!!

SuperSLIMO: aku sangat paham kamu, ya, aku sangat paham, tapi jangan paksakan sesuatu yg aku sendiri masih belum bisa, kau tau keadaanku, kelemahan hatiku dan ke tidak stabilan perasaanku, jangan tekan aku, ok aku sayang sama kamu tapi kumohon tidak secepat ini, hal yg cepat tidak akan baik, semua butuh proses, dan kalo kamu nggak mau mengalami proses itu, ya,, aku nggak tau harus gimana,,

chino'bdg+: sumpah bodoh

chino'bdg+: aq ga tau

chino'bdg+: bodoh ko ya

chino'bdg+: aq suka ma kau

chino'bdg+: anjing

chino'bdg+: aq mau kamu!!

chino'bdg+: nksfd8[ejivtg9otugrvhbioynjmv/t;kgnivnwve cxbh,ggnnjmtyfihojgukdtbuyj4k,hjti,fk

chino'bdg+: aq ga mau

chino'bdg+: ga mau

chino'bdg+: ga mau

chino'bdg+: ga mau nyoba mahami org lain lagi

chino'bdg+: kau cukup dan aku rasa

chino'bdg+: tau!!

chino'bdg+: aq

chino'bdg+: aq percaya ma kata hatiku imo

chino'bdg+: sekarang aku mendengarkan kata hatiku

chino'bdg+: aq hanya ga mau

chino'bdg+: bodoh ah......................................................

BUZZ!!!

SuperSLIMO: sekarang aku baru paham apa yg orang selalu katakan,, "kadang cinta datang terlalu cepat, atau kita sudah tertinggal"

SuperSLIMO: aku juga bingung

SuperSLIMO: entahlah

SuperSLIMO: yg jelas aku sangat tau

SuperSLIMO: kamu sayang ma aku

SuperSLIMO: tapi hatiku masih butuh ketenangan, aku nggak mau salah langkah lagi

SuperSLIMO: aku nggak mau sakit lagi, atau menyakiti org lain

chino'bdg+: kadang cinta datang terlalu cepat, atau kita sudah tertinggal"

chino'bdg+: kau yg blg

chino'bdg+: tp ko ga percaya kan???

chino'bdg+: ''aku nggak mau salah langkah lagi''

chino'bdg+: kau anggap apa prasaan ku ??

BUZZ!!!

SuperSLIMO: sudahlah, kalo kamu begini terus kamu nggak akan dewasa, nggak akan bisa memahami kata "AKU" dan "KAMU" menjadi "KITA", kau tuntut aku terus untuk memahami kamu tapi kau nggak pernah bisa tau perasaanku, keinginanku

SuperSLIMO: kaupaksa aku terus paham kamu, kapan kamu paham aku?

chino'bdg+: sumpah...aku lemas

SuperSLIMO: sekarang kita balik, kalo posisi kamu adalah posisiku

SuperSLIMO: kamu lagi hanjur

SuperSLIMO: lagi nggakl stabil

SuperSLIMO: dtg org yg sayang ma kamu

SuperSLIMO: kamu tau dia sayang

SuperSLIMO: apa aku salah kalo aku nggak langsung bisa nerima dia

SuperSLIMO: krn butuh pembuktian

SuperSLIMO: butuh dia harus stabil juga

SuperSLIMO: dlm kehidupan dan kedewasaan

SuperSLIMO: dan satu lagi'

SuperSLIMO: kamu belum pernah ketemu juga,

SuperSLIMO: apa aku salah

SuperSLIMO: coba rasakan kalo km jadi aku

SuperSLIMO: dan rasakan kalo kamu juga sedang nggak stabil dalam semua hal

SuperSLIMO: tapi terus ditekan

SuperSLIMO: aku hanya berharap tak ada salah langkah, semua yg bernafas dibumi butuh proses, bukan paksaan untuk menjadi yang terbaik, yang diingini oleh napsu, semoga ada waktu terhenti pada kehidupan yg lebih baik,,

chino'bdg+: terserah mau kau apa

aq hanya tau' waktu,proses,cinta,nafsu,stabil dan semua tentang dirimu,,

chino'bdg+: ga ngerti ;((

KolonG "TOBE A SINGLE GAY AND VERY HAPPY"

Here I'm in Bali, where's else place I should stay when all people around this entire world coming and enjoy sun? lot joys here, lot clubs, lot have fun!! but still I'm single, doesn't mean no one love me, but,, oh...boy, don't ask how many souls already propose me to be part of them, hehehe.., but.... here I enjoys my self being like this, and If you one of my part, SO WHAT? enjoy this live and you may find sumthing new here in planet,, :B

I know When you’re single, everyone asks you the same question. When are you getting in relationship with the boy? why aren’t you choose any guys to be your love? wanna make love with me? Whatever the reason is you’re probably tired of hearing it.
It can sometimes be even worse if you’re single, in your thirty’s and you don’t even have a steady mate. People sometimes wonder what’s wrong with you. The answer to that question is obviously nothing. You can be happy and single without a mate.

The first step to being single and happy is to be happy with yourself. If you are happy with who you are then it won’t matter what other people say or think. Because there will be many times as a single person that you will want to go out and do something but don’t have any one to do anything with. For example, if all of your closest friends are married or have a significant other you may feel like a third wheel hanging out with them. Or the only free time these couples may have they want to spend it alone with each other or other couples. This is no time to feel sorry for yourself. Get out of the house and do something. Don’t be afraid to do your favorite activities by yourself.

Don’t be afraid to go to a restaurant by yourself either. Instead of having someone to talk to before, during and after your meal, bring a book or magazine to read. It will pass up the time. You’ll also notice that your meal is brought to you faster when you are by yourself than when you are with a date or a few people. I don’t know if it is because cooking one plate of food is quicker than cooking two or more and having them ready at the same time, or if the waiter is trying to get rid of you sooner by having you eat quickly so that they can get you out of their so a couple can have your table.

You can even go to concerts or sporting events alone. You can certainly enjoy these events without having someone with you. Sometimes you may end up talking to the person next to you, especially at a ball game.

Just because you are single and without a mate, doesn’t mean you should sit around the house and mope. If you want to go someplace and have no one to go with, go out by yourself. You can still have a wonderful time.. ;)

KolonG Saturday Nite Gay Education, Many Straight Men Have Gay Sex

Thanks for Daniel J Denoon already inform this articles, and edited by Chang from MD Health news.

Nearly 10% of Self-Proclaimed 'Straight' Men Only Have Sex With Men
Nearly one in 10 men who say they're straight have sex only with other men, a New York City survey finds. And 70% of those straight-identified men having sex with men are married. In fact, 10% of all married men in this survey report same-sex behavior during the past year. This means safe-sex messages aimed at straight and gay men are likely missing this important subgroup, suggest Preeti Pathela, DrPH, New York City Department of Health and Mental Hygiene, and colleagues.
"To reduce the burden of sexually transmitted diseases and HIV infection among men who have sex with men, it is of utmost importance for [health care] providers to take a sexual history that ascertains the sex of a partner," Pathela and colleagues report. "Asking about a patient's sexual identity will not adequately assess his risk."

Straight Men Who Have Sex With Men

In 2003, Pathela's team performed telephone interviews with nearly 4,200 New York City men. They conducted the interviews in English, Spanish, Chinese, and Russian; a translation service helped with interviews in Greek, Korean, Yiddish, Polish, and Haitian Creole. In nearly every study of sexual behavior, the percentage of men who report sex with men is higher than the percentage of men who report being gay. So Pathela and colleagues first asked the men if they were bisexual, gay, or straight. Then they asked about specific sexual behaviors.

Some of the findings:

• Straight-identified men who have sex with men report fewer sex partners than gay men.


• Straight-identified men who have sex with men report fewer STDs in the past year than gay men.


• Straight-identified men who have sex with men are less likely than gay men to report using a condom during their last sexual encounter.


• Straight-identified men who have sex with men are more likely to be foreign born than gay men.

Also, a man who says he is straight but is having sex with other men is more likely to be married than a straight man who has sex with women, according to the survey. Only 54% of the men who say they're straight and have sex with women are married, compared with the 70% marriage rate among the men who say they're straight but have sex with men. Pathela and colleagues note that because they report fewer STDs and fewer sex partners than gay men, straight-identified men who have sex with men may think they are at lower risk of HIV and STDs. This isn't necessarily so.

The men with whom these straight-identified men have sex may themselves have multiple sex partners and elevated STD and HIV risk. The low rate of condom use makes the straight-identified men vulnerable. "Prevention messages should focus on the activities that pose risk -- for example, unprotected receptive anal sex -- and should not be framed to appeal solely to gay-identified men," Pathela and colleagues suggest.

PS. for BudhyBug....peace, ok?

KolonG "his nick name MARGO"

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KolonG "this ain't a love story"

Have you ever match with someone you just met? You browse in your manjam or facebook and when you met him you really feel so deferent like you ever met before in your before life –Dejavu-. Or How’s when you meet some boy, you really like him, you comfort being with him, together spend so much time and both of you guys so intimate but there’s no love feeling inside. This is not love story nor the romantic moment but only 2 soulmate matches together in one some other time, some other space of happiness. In gay life its very often happen in our time, sometime we try to figure it out if is it love or is it just intimate moment, some other situation both of us convinced that already have a boy friend each. Take some test is it love blooming or a friendship expectation?
My story was begin song long time ago when i was living in Jogja, and I'd love to tell here for you, Here’s my story..

[EmoBoy] hey I’m in jogja now, can we meet this is my number 0819312*****

[me] sure, let’s meet, mine 08172*****

Saturday night, Greenz Café Seturan, than its like wind blow we’re sms and decided the right place for meet, talk much, laugh much, and what I felt that time, happy to have a new pal, looking of his eyes like I run away thought the green grass in the middle of freeze morning and it became peace through my heart. Emo is great boy, being honest he’s totally my type, skinny and tall, nice black smooth skin, fat hair and seemed that he’s kinds and truly need just friend. I see him deeply that night, the way he talked, smile and touch my hand make me felt so comfort, seemed like never show any naughty mind in his head. -first test- I touch his back and his hair while we were talking, he looked at me back and smile, I knew firstly he felt un comfort but heart and mind of him let me to do that touch away with no regret, his eyes seemed to say it just of care as a best pal, and he also enjoy time to be touched so much fun. What make my weekend much bright when it came 2^nd night of our met , Sunday, we’re in other café, Earth Café Babarsari, so much fun while we were browsing gay porno web inside the public, hehehe… that was stupid but we didn’t fucking care with others, close to midnight went to my room and we’ve got plenty of time to chat. –second test- holding him from behind, and his response still same, smile and said how comfort he got that hold said “nice, bro..” it came midnight when I bring him back I felt like I wont lose him, I want some more time being together, gonna miss him badly, -last test- sms him that I miss him and wish we can more further than just a friend, he replied to thank an wish we can be a best friend, just a best friend. Bingo…!!! Congratulation….!!! He past the test and it make me sure that this is what I’m looking for, pure friend with no benefits, and kinds. Together with him again is all what I want, and there will be no more dirty mind inside. Friendship is everything, best friend is the best gift that we deserve to get in this entire world, and some time we already got even we never realize..

Ps. For my EmoBoy, Thanks for the best weekend, bro. keep in touch ok? I’m gonna miss you… ;(