KolonG Handbook 2010, HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

[partty...party...party...] new years is coming, and most of PLU [people like us] going out and have a big party, big rave or even private, enjoy the feel, good touch with your BF, give him your best new year's kiss..., or feel free as a single...(if you're single...so what? hehehehe..) take your vancy dress and keep smiling, it could be your lucky nite to find your angelo ;) but hover...plz...dont drink much, spend lot box..., remember next year you still have time to shop and travelling hehehe..
for you who have long distance relationship, hemmm... why not doing little bit adventure, go to club and flirt.. there's a topless party tonite at Heaven Club and stipT performance at Apollo Club, interest??? have fun you all guyz hehehehee...

ok, this is good tips for you guys for the next year..., may it good for all of us too, enjoy...

HEALTH :
01. DRINK plenty of water.. eat much fruit and vege, good for your skin.
02. EAT BREAKFAST like a beggar, lunch like a prince and dinner like a king.
03. LIVE with the 3 E's--ENERGY, ENTHUSIASM and EMPATHY
04. Make time to PRAY.
05. PLAY more games and GYM addicted.
06. READ more books than you did in 2009.
07. keep SMILE...
08. SLEEP for 7 hours.
09. Take a 10-30 minutes WALK daily. And while you walk.

PERSONALITY:
10. Don't OVER DO. Keep your limits.
11. Don't take yourself so SERIOUSLY, No one else does.
12. Don't WASTE your precious ENERGY on GOSSIP
13. DREAM more while you are AWAKE.
14. ENVY is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
15. Forget issues of the PAST. Don't remind your partner with his MISTAKES of the PAST. That will ruin your PRESENT HAPPINESS.
16. Life is too short to WASTE time HATING anyone. Don't HATE others.
17. Make PEACE with your PAST so it won't spoil the PRESENT.
18. No one is IN CHARGE of your HAPPINESS except you.
19. ENJOY WEEKEND and go to PARTY some where..
20. shop much, enjoy your great style
21. plan your travelling for July and December 2010.

SOCIETY:
21. CALL your FAMILY and best Pals often.
22. Each day GIVE something GOOD to your partner.
23. FORGIVE everyone for everything..
24. SPEND time with people in any societies.
25. Try to MAKE at least three people SMILE each day.
26. What other people THINK of you is NONE of your business.

LIFE:
27. DO the RIGHT thing!
28. GOD HEALS everything.
29. However GOOD or BAD a situation is, it will CHARGE.
30. No matter how you feel, GET UP, DRESS UP and SHOW UP.
31. The BEST is yet to come..
32. When AWAKE in the morning,thank GOD for it.
33. Your INNET MOST is always HAPPY. So, BE HAPPY.

HAPPY 2010....and keep groovin' ya there!!! [love.SUPERSLIMO]

KolonG its feel good to be LEO

Leo
July 23 - August 22

Leo is the fifth sign of the zodiac. These folks are impossible to miss, since they love being center stage. Making an impression is Job One for Leos, and when you consider their personal magnetism, you see the job is quite easy. Leos are an ambitious lot, and their strength of purpose allows them to accomplish a great deal. The fact that these folks are also creative makes their endeavors fun for them and everyone else. It's quite common to see a Leo on stage or in Hollywood, since these folks never shy away from the limelight. They are also supremely talented and have a flair for the dramatic. Warmth and enthusiasm seems to seep from every Leo pore, making these folks a pleasure to be around. They do love pleasure!

It's the Lion that symbolizes Leos, and the king (or queen) of the jungle is a most appropriate mascot, since they consider themselves the rulers of their universe (and the zodiac at that). Like Lions, Leos tend to be dignified and strong, and itÕs this sense of their power that allows them to get things done. A Leo on your team is a good thing, since Lions are eager to see their projects through to completion. Putting these folks at the helm is a good thing, too, since the Leo-born are natural leaders. They may ruffle a few feathers along the way, however, since they can also be overbearing and somewhat autocratic. This may be in keeping with the Fixed Quality assigned to this sign -- Lions are indeed opinionated and set in their ways. That said, they are well organized, idealistic and have a knack for inspiring others.

Leo is ruled by the Sun -- the center of the universe and the fuel for our being. In much the same way, Leos consider themselves indispensable and the center of the universe, and those who would tell them otherwise had better look out! Lions are outgoing, self-assured and have a tremendous zest for life. So what if the world revolves around them? There are worse role models, for sure. The Lion's enthusiasm is boundless, and along with that comes generosity of spirit and the determination to succeed. That focus may be construed as vanity and even bossiness at times, but Lions would say 'No way!' and continue along their regal path. Regardless of appearance, those born under this sign can be counted on for their loyalty and sense of honor. They are also decisive, intensely proud and wonderfully romantic.

The element associated with Leo is Fire. Everything about the Lion's personality is hot, hot, hot. Those born under this sign are fearless and strong, which may be why Lions plunge in headfirst and let the chips fall where they may. Thankfully, Leos are dignified enough not to commit too many pratfalls. It's the Lion's unswerving courage that wins so many folks over. If you need someone to lead the charge, call a Leo -- and the bigger the project, the better, since these folks love an expansive stage (and the audience that comes with it). While some would take to calling Lions status-conscious, these folks are truly warmhearted and want everyone to be happy. Hey, it's their kingdom, and happy campers make for a perfect peace. Further, it's the great gift of the Leo-born to be dynamic, forward-thinking and self-confident. These attributes certainly catch the attention of others, making Leos sought after by both friends and lovers. The Lion's charms extend to all, even to the children they dearly love. Yes, the pleasure principle is paramount to the Lion, and along those lines, Leos are great at spending money. Lions can't fathom an uncomfortable throne. Leos also enjoy trying their luck at the tables, so expect to find them living it up in Las Vegas.

Come play time, Leos are at their best. Those born under this sign enjoy fun and games both outdoors and in (and with a group), so expect to find them playing softball, hockey or a game of cards. Lions are also a natural at the gym, where they can show their stuff to a crowd. When the lights are low, the essential Lion comes to the fore, since this beast is 90 percent fun and 100 percent romantic. The Leo lover is devoted, creative and almost too hot to handle! Since Leo rules the heart and back, however, overzealous Lions may have to take a deep breath and slow down a bit. You can bet that the Lion's home will be swaddled in royal purple and gold.

The great strengths of the Leo-born are their creativity, idealism and leadership. Lions don't lack for ambition, either, so they're likely to accomplish a lot -- and have fun while they're at it. Their warmth and loyalty ensures that others will enjoy the ride as well.

KolonG How to Make your Ex Boyfriend Jealous - MOST GOOD Tips and Advice, MUST READ!!

thanks for Ayyar from futurescope for this tips...enjoy guys, and let fire on the spirit of revenge, hahahahha...

There may be many reasons you want to make your ex boyfriend jealous. Some of them may be good and some of them could be really bad. Almost all of them are sure to be immature and petty. But the broken heart wants what it wants. Who cares about being good and righteous when you can be evil and get even? All the pop psychology aside, sometimes it’s therapeutic to make an ex jealous. Something vindictive about having him regret not being with you. So, take a deep breath as we indulge our darker side.

1. The best revenge, they say, is to live well. As vague as that is, it’s pretty clear that if you are happy with your current situation in life, it means that your life is a lot better without your ex. Be happy with your life and life’s choices. Make your peace with your current situation and be content. True happiness shows on your face, through your smile and your laughter.

2. Do not stop working, exercising and hanging out with friends, especially common friends. You need to continue your routine to stay sane. Also, hanging out with common friends will only help your cause. They can act as indirect messengers between you and your ex boyfriend.

3. Do not post depressing status messages on Facebook. Do not tweet that you’re now broken hearted. This will appear too contrived and sad. Do post standard and mundane messages about work or studies. Another option is posting updates about music, movies you watched, clubs that you went to, etc.

4. Always look your best. Even if you step out to buy tangerines or cereal, look good. You don’t have to wear your Sunday best, but be groomed. Even if you’re casually dressed, do not be frazzled and sloppy. When you leave your house, ask yourself if you want to look like this if your ex boyfriend runs into you? Would this look be good enough to make him regret his decision?

5. Hang out with one of your guy friends to make your ex boy friend jealous. Not more than one. It could be viewed as desperate. If you have a friend that your ex was always jealous of, half your work is done. Do not be over flirtatious; however, you can be affectionate and warm.

6. If you run into your ex, be very casual. Act like you would if you ran into a casual friend of the opposite gender. Answer everything he asks in a matter of fact manner. Talk about exams, college, etc. Anything mundane and routine that isn’t indicative of your heartache is good. If you are asked “How you doing”, say that you’re doing well. Respond naturally and in the way you would to an acquaintance or even a stranger. Don’t look sad or forlorn.

well..THAT'S ALL for my tips for you SUPERSLIMO, and keep on write, dude... you're rock with this BLOG

Love--A AYYAR

KolonG weekend story (why love is so difficult)

hey..SLIMO, I do not know why it is not easy to fall in love with someone, even when u thought that u find love, something will happen which makes aware that it was not belong to u at first place. I think that it is hard to speak about love witout feel disappointed. May be there is no love in this lifeand people just live without fall in love. I fell in love once but whom I loved was very hesitaited to confess about his love toward me.

ME : Dont feel so, in a gay life sometime guys love to flirt than have a serious relationship, but anyhow love is nice, you only have to be patient and you will see that the right person comes. But the most important thing is that you have to love your self first. Because happiness becomes only inside of you. HERE MANY FRIENDS OF MINE TRY TO GIVE SOME ADVISES ;)

FLOWER : in fact the love is not difficult we make it so difficult why…when two person love each other ….keep selint…till hard moment comes …why the lovers make thier love so complete, whereas they can be happy….why one of them make mistake the other complicate the situation, why and why there is no ending to this ,but what i want to say …love is not difficult and it willn't be….but people by them selves make it so so difficult.

PRINCE OF LOVE ; There is no love without pain. Love is such a wonderful feeling, which no one can deny it's existence, but most of the people mix up btw like and love. Both of them have different meaning, where like only exist for a certain time, but love stays forever that's why most of the love story that we hear ends up badly coz none of the couples are sure about their feelings, but ofcourse there are exceptions, I mean those people who knows what they feel towards the other. But the right love will not be difficult – I get behind this sentence!!

LARRY CHEN : good words, love is so difficult to realize and to get. it's not easy to distinguish love and like. when you like someone, you may fall in love with her, but what if the like is not love? we should act more bravely in the process to search for the right one, as unless we try more and experience more can we find the real love

MATRIX : I heard my grandmother said " The more difficult love you find the sweeter love you get"

MED SADOK : the only thing that i belive that love exist and to have it you must live a very difficult experience in order to earn it . love is the most powerfull feeling that a humain being can feel so i dont belive that it will be easy.

MISS.CHUN : maybe it's love , or i can say that it's life , we always miss something we really wanna hold in

ORQUIDEA : For me love is not difficult, the problem is that we complicated every thing. Because people are complicated. Love is easy, but we always obsed with the wrong person, That don't deserve us. "And we have to learn to love but not in a selfish way"

KolonG "awake"

With every appearance by you, blinding my eyes, I can hardly remember the last time I felt like I do. You're an angel disguised. And you're lying real still, But your heart beat is fast just like mine. And the movie's long over, That's three that have passed, one more's fine.

Will you stay awake for me? I don't wanna miss anything, I don't wanna miss anything , I will share the air I breathe, I'll give you my heart on a string, I just don't wanna miss anything.

I'm trying real hard not to shake. I'm biting my tongue, But I'm feeling alive and with every breathe that I take, I feel like I've won. You're my key to survival. And if it's a hero you want, I can save you. Just stay here. Your whispers are priceless. Your breathe, it is dear. So please stay near. Will you stay awake for me? I don't wanna miss anything, I don't wanna miss anything , I will share the air I breathe, I'll give you my heart on a string, I just don't wanna miss anything.
Say my name. I just want to hear you. Say my name. So I know it's true. You're changing me. You're changing me. You showed me how to live. So just say. So just say, That you'll stay awake for me. I don't wanna miss anything. I don't wanna miss anything. I will share the air I breathe, i'll give you my heart on a string, I just don't wanna miss anything..

KolonG "ticket to exit gate"

Think about movie "after sunset"and "before sunrise" when it storied of love couple togather cross the unexpectable story, spent time togather and it only them, very both of them. It's more wonderful than found thousand peny in golden land, more wild and crazy jorney of Tibet's climbing, and here it wrote under the illution faith, one beautiful evening, inda middle of the most hot town in java, between me and a man called Adot.

Citramedia Net, Ciputra, sept 23, 03.52PM. I even cant feel the cold air under that AC machine, my hand dancing through my chat room and i met him then, a while crazy man offer some beautiful flirt, still under that fuckin' hot AC machine words run away seemed like cross the lust poem, and damn....!! we're inda same place, his net box only 2 feet front of mine, bingo..!! i saw him standing and smile, i said to my self "God...you're not funny". shaking hand and two devils introduced their fire name. I dropped my boom next to him, suddenly his eyes fire catch my desire and dragon kiss crush on my burn lips, felt like mountain lava touch brain, it so fast and damn....., we just realize it was public area we're on, but smile bloom from his face and i back to my box, continue chat we trade number and his 1st sms came "wanna hang on out from here?" i text back "ok"

I can't see the afternoon sun but the air so damn hot touch my soul, we jump to the nice place call e-plaza, cup of hot capuccino side of my ice capuccino, whatta combination between heaven and hell. we talked much, storied came rolling us and when it come time took the pic, i kissed him.
i ran to the simpanglima court, he look at me deep and hold him tight, its so damn hot and sawn by those building sourround, we're kiss, and kiss.. fresh air come from my soul, notty freedom and attitude flying to nowhere. cant account how far we walk, jump to taxy tried find karaoke places, than time stop us for an exciting dinner. hot versus hot, desire catch the lust, and i saw rainbow in my stupid imagination. i knew i cant love him, he even never think bout anyother day we can meet again and repply tis momment, we're both notty boys, ugly duckeyguys, and i still keep my religion, i dont trust love i trust fuck, but this heart keep beating, and i denied my own honest feeling, but...i like him, and let the time kill my hope, if i can touch the pray, i do wanna with him for long that time, damn...i zaps myself to reality, i should enjoy every momment last, no hard feeling, not expected more, i knew he just wanted have fun, so did it. End up the meals we kept walk surround the mall, and suddenly his crazy wild mind catched his notty brain. it was at the corner of our floor, eyes spoke to found the exit gate, ran to enter it and lust blows up behind of that sign, that dark gate push our sin, lips on lips, body on body, pilar cross the cave, angel singing the song of satiesfaction and prince of hell fired our innocent mind, ...he's mine and i'm hims. Took the soul of love war, then we had write our history, between two lonely man, and love crush lamp to darkness, and it crown us to the land of wet, for me, for him and exit gate...

(08.54pm) sms came...."take care ya, nice to meet you...cheers!!"
(09.01pm) i repplied...."if God Dj then life is a dance floor, love is the rythm, and you are the music, now i'm dancing with my happy heart, thanks 4 the great evening. mwaaaaah!! :-*
(10.16pm) he text...."hehehe so sweet! thx u, my 'DIDUT'... Muaaaaach!

ps thanks aDot for the great story, one beautiful evening, and Simpang Lima

KolonG He's perfect but not the Mr.Right one

in a Gay life you may easy to falling in love when you met some guy you really think perfect, but remember...lot of Mr.Player out of there...
My story begin when I met a guy in chat, we did flirt conversations and end with sex. Through I did really liked him, he's totally my type, white, tall, nice personality, warm, big "dee" but not really great in sex, i was unsure about whether i did like him but i mess up with myself anyway. True he's great looking and still young but im not shallow its not all about looks. Little things annoy me about him when it was second time we did i thought i was going never high up. He really not perfect though everything i've ever wanted and then why do i feel like he's really not right for me? I really can't put my finger on whats wrong with him! i knew we both need sex but i never satisfied to. d'u have the same case here?

if it happen to you too, obviously that sometimes he isn't right for you. sometime people not only need look for their partner but service is also supported. (maybe) as a person, he is great, should (definitely) but he cant fancy you up! And what do we call people like him for but don't fancy? "Friends Only" :)
Just tell him gently but firmly that you like him but just for a friend, don't want a relationship with. and you will recover your self to be agreat man infront of him, dont lost very fast, you'll be fine step by step leting him go away from your life, I promise. it just one big lap of happiness and lust you've got, if he ask too much, no need explain things... You have to do it to make sure none can be hurted - and I did that, Just to tell him. I know what I want to-

ps. Arya...i knew you're perfect but not the Mr.Right one for me, sorry..

KolonG step to handle Possessive or Jealous Boyfriend

is it really tired you think when you have very touchy boyfriend? he asks you many questions, want to figure it out what you've done and what will you do. or sometime you being blocked of your time and freedom, any how you have lot pals to be cared for, and you need to go out somewhere without your bf follow you behind. i know maybe he loves you much but it's not the way he treat you and grab your life. in Gay Life we can found lot cases of this, figuring out how to handle your boyfriend’s jealously and possessive personality can be a delicate situation. We must understand in these situations is that the jealously and possessive behavior is usually a sign of the man’s insecurity and personal issues and not you. However, it does add a level of strain to relationships and needs to be discussed. The bottom line is to not let him manipulate you to the extent that it is changing your relationships, friendships and normal routine.

Don’t Let Him Manipulate You
If your boyfriend is possessive or jealous, you can’t let his manipulative actions affect you. By being possessive of you, he wants you all to himself and usually in these cases, the boyfriend limits the boy's ability to hang out with her friends and do things with others. He has to understand that only having a relationship with each other is not healthy. Should suggest he hang out with his friends, too, and that it will be good for your relationship.
Another tip to ease his jealous and possessive behavior is to assure him that he has nothing to worry about regarding your loyalty to the relationships. You must make sure he knows that you won’t waiver. Part of the insecurity comes from the fear that you will leave him for another man. To calm this fear, express your feelings for him on a consistent basis. It will make him more secure and hopefully make things better in your relationship.

You Need Friends, Too
In situations with a jealous or possessive boyfriend, the man's ability to hang out with girl or guy friends can be is limited, or restricted. In your mind, you think your boyfriend is being ridiculous and your instinct is probably to not even justify his thoughts. Though, you will need to communicate to him that you are not interested in other guys and to trust you. He also needs to understand that hanging around each other all the time is not healthy for your relationship. If he hangs out with his friends and doesn’t let you spend time with yours, then you probably shouldn’t put up with it.
Sometimes an overly jealous or possessive boyfriend can lead a boy to his tipping point and cause a break-up. However, it is not fair for you to be manipulated by a possessive boyfriend. It will not improve the health of your relationship and only cause drama. The main point to remember is that your boyfriend must be clear about your loyalty to him and that other people will not affect your relationship. If you can calm some of his insecurities, you may be able to keep your jealous or possessive boyfriend in a more neutral frame of mind.

ps. Adi, too much love will create some jealousy and possessive, so...sometimes love just enough, ok?

KolonG 3 step confidence to be more fashionable

1. If you look at a item of clothing and you really like, buy it! Your confidence shouldn't hold you back, people admire people with confidence.
2. Be yourself! Express how you are in what you wear. Don't follow off others. Having your own style can not only give you a major confidence but it also make people admire you because you're different. If you're not too confident in yourself- take it slow. One step at a time, build your look more unique.
3. If you really like something but dont think it's 'you' just fake it until it does become you..I remember doing that with try some new accessories. Being more fashionable is adding little things in to your outfits..start small.

Having your own style is about being cool and comfortable in yourself, find what you like and suits you!

ps. Alvin, you're rock, babe..!!!