KolonG "How to be a better Bottom"

Bottoming ( being fucked ) is just as much fun as Topping ( fucking ), and if done right can be the gateway to sensual delights man hath not even dreamed of.
There are always new ways in which you can be a better bottom. As a versatile boy I get the best of both worlds and I want to share with you some of the tricks that I have picked up during my shenanigans.

Before we co any further we need to get the uncomfortable stuff out of the way. It may be yucky to think about but there is no point proceeding any further without having first discussed “preparation”. Lots of people avoid talking about this part and yet funnily enough it is the thing I get asked about the most. Getting yourself ready to bottom is important both for your comfort and peace of mind. It will be impossible to relax if you are worrying about having an “accident”.

Position.

Position is important and if your Top is not driving the situation then don’t be afraid to move around and get him where you want to go. Starting by sitting on top of him is a good way to begin if you are having trouble relaxing or experiencing pain. If you are on top you can control the angle and depth until you have loosened up enough to change positions.

Find a good lube.

Lube is important and a bad lube can ruin a hot session just as easily as forgetting to douche. Don’t be sucked in by cheap generics. If you are going to enjoy yourself then get the good stuff. Remember lube doesn’t just help him slide it in, it also helps him slide out and in and out and in and out and in. Everyone has a favourite, personally I like the silicon based Swiss Navy, if find the water based stuff tends to dry out and get sticky.

Move it, grind it, bounce it.

Moving around is important. Don’t be a starfish. One thing that drives a lot of Tops crazy is when the bottom pushes back to meet his thrusts. Don’t be afraid to be a little bit aggressive. If going doggy style arch your back to make your ass really pop, it also makes it easier for the Top to access you and  helps prevent those frustrating slip outs.

Grinding your hips is another great trick. If you are sitting on top and you grind it just right you can hit your prostate and clench your ass muscles at the same time to drive your Top nuts! Once the heat turns up and you are feeling in the swing of things go for the bounce but be careful not to go too far or too fast. Coming down too hard or letting him slip out is a sure way to cause an injury. Alternate the grind and bounce for a real treat.

Scratch, bite and moan.

You have arms… use them. Run your nails down his back ( gently, we aren't getting all Wolverine on him… yet ), pull him into you to show him you want it. Nibble on his ear, neck and arms, be gentle, it’s not a Twilight rerun. If you like something the easiest way to let a guy know is to moan, softly, loudly, whatever…  you will know what’s appropriate.

Grooming.

Keeping things neat and tidy down there will help keeps things running smoothly. You don’t have to be hairless, every top will have their own preference. Try to avoid shaving right before sex though. Apart from the health risks of cuts, stubble can also cause chaffing to your Tops equipment while causing ingrown hairs and stubble rash to you. A good lube helps avoid this but it’s worth mentioning.

It’s sex, not porn.

If you are new to Sex and to Bottoming remember that Sex is fun but it is also messy and awkward at times. The best thing is to know your limits and approach it with a sense of humor. Sure double penetration looks hot on Corbin Fisher but it’s probably not something you want to try for your first time. Don’t make the mistake of thinking that if you can’t take it like a porn star then you are no good. Focus on what you find pleasurable and on what your partner enjoys and you can’t really go wrong.

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KolonG "How To Be A Great Top for your bot partner"

Screwing a guy should be as much about giving him pleasure, as getting it for yourself.
One thing that you can do to enhance your partner's pleasure is to use longer strokes. A lot of guys tend to slip their 'member' inside their partner, and just use quick short strokes. Boring.

If you're a guy with a sizable endowment (congratulations), or a guy with a partner that doesn't get screwed too often and is really tight, there are a couple of things you can do to make things easier for him.
One is to first loosen him up. You can rim him or you can finger him. Select a lube that you prefer if you're going to finger him. Work a single finger up his butt and see how he reacts, then try two, if you're feeling adventurous and so is he, try three. Don't move the fingers in and out too much, let your partner get used to idea of having something inside of him.

Once he feels comfortable, try slipping just your head inside of him. As you feel it slip in then stop and hold it there for a while. As your partner adjusts push in a little more. If you see your partner wince then stop and hold it there, pull out just a little if he needs you to.
This way you should eventually be able to get most if not all of your 'member' inside of him. Once you do, use long strokes for the maximum amount of pleasure. Try not to pull completely out of him while screwing. That can cause air to get packed inside your partner's bum which can lead to some rather embarrassing results. Though slipping the head in and out of your partner's butt can be a wonderful way to tease him.
Don't forget about your partner's 'member' while screwing him. If his 'member' is accessible play with it, it can also be fun to slap his bum playfully while doing him.

Screwing can get pretty routine. If you're used to one or two positions only, we urge you to try new ones. Encourage your partner to try new ways. Also try different locations, other than your bedroom or bed. Have you ever been on a secluded country road and bent your partner over the hood of a car while screwing him? On the balcony of your house/apartment? In a sex club or in a hot tub? Have you ever done it on a hillside while overlooking a beautiful view, or on a beach on a starry night? You can try different places around your house too. As popular a stereotype as it may be - we don't recommend airplane lavatories, they are usually way too cramped, and if you think the flight attendants won't notice? - well, don't be surprised if they offer you a cigarette after you come out.

When it comes to lubes there is a wide variety of choices that are available to you. Everything from spit to tons of commercial brands. We're not too fond of commercial sex lubricants. They tend to get too sticky, or they dry up, or they can be way too slick, or they are a big pain to clean up. One lube that gets overlooked quite often is a good water based hand and body lotion.
We prefer lotion because there is a lot less stuff to clean up, they tend to absorb somewhat (where sex lubes do not), and they provide just enough lubrication to make things comfortable, and not so much that you feel like you're screwing a moist rag.

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KolonG "Tips For Giving Oral Pleasure That'll Drive Him Crazy"

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KolonG "9 reasons you should have sex everyday"

If you thought that the only benefit of sex was, well,  pleasure, here's some news for you. Making love is good for adults. And making love regularly is even better.
Not only does it help you sleep well, relieve stress and burn calories, there are also several other reasons why you need to have sex more often.

Improves cardiovascular health A recent study says that men who have sex more than twice a week, have a lesser risk of getting a heart attack, than men who had sex less than once a month.

Increases immunity Regular lovemaking increases the level of the immune-boosting antibody immunological A (IgA), which in turn makes your body stronger against illnesses like the common cold and fever.

Reduces stress Stressed out with work or family problems? Don't let it affect your performance in the bedroom. Not only will having sex improve your mood, but a study has also proven that folks, who indulge in regular bedroom activities can handle stress better and are happier people.

Relieves pain If you're using a headache as an excuse to not make love, stop doing that. Have sex instead, because, when you're about to have an orgasm, the level of the hormone oxytocin increases by five times. This endorphin actually reduces aches and pains.

Promotes longevity When one has an orgasm, a hormone called dehydroepiandrosterone is released. This improves immunity, repairs tissue and keeps the skin healthy. Men, who have at least two orgasms a week, live longer than men who have sex just once every few weeks.

Increases blood circulation Because your heart rate increases when you have sex, fresh blood is supplied to your organs and cells. While used blood is removed, the body also expels toxins and other materials that cause you to feel tired.

You sleep better The sleep that you get just after you've made love will be much more relaxed. Getting a good night's sleep will make you feel alert and overall healthy.

Improves overall fitness If you find going to the gym mundane or working out at home a task, here's another way to help you lose the flab and keep in shape. Regular sex will do wonders for your waistline. Half an hour of lovemaking burns more than 80 calories.

Increases levels of Oestrogen and testosterone In men, the hormone testosterone is what makes them more passionate in the sack. Not only will it make you feel way better in bed, but it also improves your muscles and bones, keeps your heart healthy and keeps a check on your cholesterol. In women, on the other hand, the hormone oestrogen protects them against heart disease and also determines a woman's body scent.

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KolonG "Manfaat Menelan Sperma" [2nd part]

Apakah menelan sperma atau sperma tertelan itu berbahaya? Pertanyaan ini sering diajukan oleh kalangan gay. Karena memang teknik oral-seks (fellatio) merupakan salah satu kegiatan seks yang umum dan sering dilakukan dalam hubungan seks sejenis.

Mitos menelan sperma bisa membuat awet muda juga belum bisa dibuktikan kebenarannya secara ilmiah. Termasuk pula mitos kandungan gizi di dalam sperma yang setara dengan sekian liter susu, juga masih diperdebatkan. Jadi Untuk mengetahui jawabanya, harus melihat beberapa hal yang berkaitan dengan tertelannya sperma, diantaranya kandungan zat dalam sperma, dan kesehatan organ intim.
Bicara mengenai sperma tertelan bisa dipastikan ada hubungannya dengan aktifitas Oral Seks. Sebagai bagian dari aktivitas seks di kalangan gay, memang tidak menjadi sebuah keharusan, karena toh masih banyak juga alternatif hubungan seks yang lain. Namun beberapa pasangan gay menjadikan aktivitas oral-seks sebagai aktivitas utama.

Hal ini sangat tergantung sekali dengan pengalaman seks pasangan atau pemahaman tentang seks. Pada seks oral yang dilakukan oleh banyak kalangan gay, memang terkadang sering berakhir pada ejakulasi di dalam mulut, dan karena inilah kenapa sperma bisa tertelan. Yang perlu diwaspadai adalah apakah bagian intim dari pasangan seks tersebut sehat?
Jika mengalami infeksi berupa penyakit kelamin, tentu sangat beresiko terhadap kesehatan. Begitu juga jika ditemukan adanya luka makro pada mulut pasangan, misalnya sariawan, penyakit radang gusi dan sebagainya, maka sperma yang tertelan bisa saja menularkan penyakit. Belum lagi luka mikro yang seringkali tidak pernah kita sadari.
Cairan semen dan sperma yang masuk ke mulut akan turun ke lambung, dan bercampur dengan asam lambung lantas turun ke usus, kemudian dicerna bersama dengan makanan lainnya. Mulut, lambung dan usus adalah bagian dari sistem pencernaan tubuh dan bukan sistem reproduksi sehingga menelan sperma tidak akan menyebabkan kehamilan.
Dan jika tidak ada luka (baik luka makro ataupun mikro), maka sperma yang tertelan tidak akan berdampak buruk. Namun sebaliknya, jika ada luka (baik luka makro ataupun luka mikro), maka menelan sperma sangat beresiko tertular berbagai penyakit.
Untuk itu sebelum melakukan aktifitas oral seks ada baiknya mengikuti beberapa tips sehat oral seks seperti pada ulasan disini.

Permasalahan lain adalah kaitannya dengan kandungan zat dalam sperma itu sendiri. Apakah sperma memiliki zat gizi yang bermanfaat ataukah justru mengandung zat yang berbahaya?

Berikut ini adalah beberapa kandungan zat kimia dalam sel sperma:
Calcium: Komposisi ini sangat berguna untuk tulang dan gigi bahkan untuk menjaga fungsi otot dan syaraf.
Citric Acid: Berguna untuk mencegah penggumpalan darah dalam tubuh
Creatine: Berguna untuk menambah tenaga dan pembentukan otot dan juga dapat berfungsi sebagai pembakar lemak dalam tubuh
Ergothioneine: Berfungsi sebagai pelindungan kulit dari kerusakan DNA
Fructose: Dapat berfungsi sebagai pencerna gula dalam tubuh yang sangat bermanfaat sebagai pencegah penyakit diabetes. Kebanyakan Fructose juga berbahaya karena bisa menyebabkan penyakit asam urat.
Glutathione: Komposisi kimia ini sangat berguna sebagai obat pencegah kanker, mencegah penggumpalan darah selama operasi dan menambah kemanjuran obat kemoterapi.
Inositol: Berfungsi mencegah kerontokan pada rambut
Lactic Acid: Berfungsi sebagai bahan untuk luka bakar dan luka pembedahan
Lipid: Berfungsi sebagai pembakar lemak
Pyruvic Acid: Berfungsi sebagai penyubur
Sorbitol: Dipergunakan oleh ahli farmasi sebagai bahan untuk mengatasi sembelit
Urea: Berfungsi untuk mengeluarkan nitrogen yang berlebih dalam tubuh
Uric Acid: Berguna sebagai pencegah penyakit diabetes tetapi kebanyakan Uric Acid akan menyebakan penyakit encok, dll
Sulfur: Berguna untuk menghaluskan kulit.
Vitamin B12 dan Zinc: Sebagai penambah stamina

Nah itulah beberapa kandungan kimia yang terdapat dalam sperma. Penjelasan fungsi zat kimia di atas bukan berarti jika sperma di telan bisa berguna seperti hal-hal tersebut, melainkan fungsi zat kimia yang sering digunakan untuk kesehatan juga terdapat dalam sperma. Namun yang perlu dipertegas adalah jumlah atau kuantitas zat kandungan tersebut seberapa kecil terdapat dalam cairan sperma yang memang tidak terlalu banyak tersebut.

Lalu apa efek atau dampak nya jika menelan sperma?
Dengan melihat kedua hal tersebut diatas yaitu kesehatan dan kandungan zat, maka menelan sperma tidak ada efek samping dan jika tidak ditemukan masalah penyakit maka sperma bukanlah zat yang berbahaya.
Sperma juga hanya mengandung sedikit kalori dan zat gizi, sehingga menelan sperma tidak akan menyebabkan kegemukan. Sel sperma yang sudah keluar juga tidak bisa bertahan lama hidup, apalagi di lambung sepl sperma ini akan mati saat bercampur dengan asam lambung, sehingga sperma yang tertelan tidak akan menyebabkan kehamilan.
Namun jika ditemukan ada luka (luka makro atau sariawan di mulut dan gusi serta luka mikro), maka menelan atau tertelan sperma bisa beresiko tertular berbagai macam penyakit, seperti Gonore, Sipilis, Herpes hingga HIV/AIDS.
Berdasarkan uraian di atas, maka dapat disimpulkan sebagai berikut:
Seks oral tanpa kondom dapat menularkan penyakit jika pasangan terinfeksi.
Selama seks oral dilakukan, anda sesungguhnya telah melakukan kontak langsung dengan penyakit (jika ada). Jadi menelan air mani tidak akan membuat banyak perbedaan dalam hal ini, karena sama saja.
Sperma dari pria yang sehat atau menelan sperma sendiri sama sekali tidak berbahaya. Bahkan pada pria yang sehat, jumlah kuman dalam sperma mereka kemungkinan jauh lebih sedikit daripada jumlah bakteri dalam air liur pria gay yang mengoral.

Ya, pria gay yang menelan sperma akan mendapatkan asupan nutrisi dari sperma yang ditelan. Namun kadar dan jumlahnya sangat sedikit.
Menelan sperma tidak akan menyebabkan kehamilan.
Asalkan pria sehat dan tidak memiliki penyakit seksual maka menelan sperma aman dilakukan.

Menelan sperma bagi gay sangat beresiko dan sangat berbahaya, jika ditemukan ada luka (luka makro atau sariawan di mulut dan gusi serta luka mikro). Karena menelan atau tertelan sperma bisa beresiko tertular berbagai macam penyakit, seperti Gonore, Sipilis, Herpes hingga HIV/AIDS