Thursday, January 13, 2011

KolonG "How to Get Your Ex BF apology"

Are you wondering how to get your ex-bf forgive you after you dumbed him?

sumtime we made some mistake when we found sumone new and work with him by dumbed our boy. By time passed by we just realize that having A heart's war with our ex-bf is not a good way to find our peace life. Well, we knew it is certainly possible to get your forgiveness but at least we have to say SORRY and ask any possible to be his friend again and erase all bad memories between. However, there are certain things that you should take note.

First, why are you seeking forgiveness? What have you done? did he hurt him much that time, did you said the worse words to make him impossible to forgive? You have to understand that the bigger the mistake, the longer the whole process take. You have to be prepared that it is going to take you a very long time to gain your ex's forgiveness.

If you think about it, it is common sense. Imagine someone being dumbed by his lover because there's someone new among them, I believe his love will angry and hate him, If you apologize on the spot that time, what do you think will happen? Do you think if he forgive you, his forgiveness will be taken seriously? Well, obviously not!

Apology can actually be a very powerful tool to help you gain forgiveness. However, you have to use it the right way. If you use it wrongly, an apology will not work. In fact, it will even make the situation worse.

One of the keys to apology is the timing. As mentioned above, apologizing immediately after broke is not going to work. You need to wait for your ex to calm down first before you attempt to apologize to him. Many people make the mistakes of trying to apologize too soon. Another mistake that you should take note of is that you should never try to defend yourself during the apology.

TIPS: A lot of people make this mistake by saying, 'I am sorry, but...' Never use the word 'BUT' in your apology. When you use this word, you are giving the impression that you are trying to defend yourself.

Get Ex Back to be your friend?

It is difficult to explain but if you found the good time to apologize just do it. you probably knew that he may won't meet you or just under estimate your act but keep trying to be nice to him, cause there's always a forgiveness if you know how to explain and show your serious apology. But if he can't accept your apology, maybe he still need more time to forgive you, keep trying, show him that you have a good mission to him [want to be his good friend again]. ;))

Monday, January 10, 2011

KolonG "confuse to buy your boyfriend A GIFT"

It always happen when your boy friend wanna celebrate his birthday, when he's on success of his carrier, or just facing the day of your celebrating moment, we always confuse to think what a best gift to him, it happen to me too, but thanks to factoidz by giving me some idea about "gift" than proudly here to share with you, ;)

what to get the man who has everything (meaning you). Boys, don’t despair, men are a lot simpler than you think or perhaps not a simple as SOME of you think.
For a man in love, one of the best gifts is the joy of giving. Honestly, I’m not joking. Truly enjoy the gifts you receive or drop hints as to what you would really like, this will make the process a lot less stressful for your man and cause him to enjoy what you give him even more. That being said, there are a few tips a gay man should follow. Most men, at least not the childish type, don’t want expensive gifts. We will drop light hints throughout the year as to what we want, pay close attention when we are at the store. Find things that will be used more than stuffed away in a closet. If you can get a man something he will use year round AND something he likes, you’re a gift giving goddess.

If you are looking for a less practical gift, be romantic. Men like romance, we just hide it better. Take your man to your favorite romantic spot, if he insists to pay let him. Share a passionate night under the stars at a restaurant or the park, outdoors is best as long as he doesn’t have bad allergies. Share a evening of romance.

Sometimes cooking a favorite dish is good enough, don’t go all out and over do it. Sometimes less means more. Finally, if you happened to get the pervy type, try his favorite sexual position, something rare and special for him.

Good luck guys, hope this helps!! ;))

KolonG "how to be a good BF"

well, lot of email to me asking how to be a good BF and it was confusing me cause every man has their opinion about that. some friends of me said..."You are fortunate if you have a boyfriend who loves you too much. If you don’t want to lose him, you shouldn’t be just a boyfriend, but you should be a good boyfriend". thanks for "ST.BOTANICA" by giving me this idea to write ;)

many step to be a good bf for your boy, even in this gay world a few good men in loyal and giving a true love but we should think about this;

first of all Always be true to him. Boys hate boys who are liars. Also be honest. Honesty is one of the biggest things which will keep him closer to you always. If you hide anything from your boyfriend or tell him lie about something you will always be unsafe. Any day if he discovers the truth, he will be hurt and it may cause break up. Boys love truthful persons.

Praising your boyfriend’s beauty is one of the best ways to be a good boyfriend. Just think, why did you get attracted towards him? You might have found him too beautiful in your eyes or too many good qualities in him. So why not praise her qualities and make him feel proud of him. Boys spend a lot of time and money to look fancy and macho in his style for you. When you meet him, praise his handsome, his eyes, his dresses etc. This will make him feel that the time he spent in making himself look cool worked.

Love what he loves. If he loves his family, his brother or his teacher, you too should show him that you love and respect them. Even if you discover any bad quality in his family members, don’t tell him. If you discover that his father drinks and quarrels with his colleagues, do not tell him. He must know his father and his qualities better than you.

Boys love gifts. So gift your boyfriend with some items frequently. It will strengthen your relationship. It is not necessary to buy expensive gifts. You can gift him even a single t-shirt. Remember, he will be happy to know that you care for him; he would not mind the cost of the gift to you back. Above all, don’t ever let him feel that you are behind some other boy.

well, be nice and be good bf then, enjoy your happy time with him!! ;))