Saturday, September 11, 2010

Kolong "Top 10 signs that show the man is into you!"

In a gay world, feeling might express to much just to show your man love you or not love you, but in fact it may not a big problem when you know him, trust him to be your partner. It happen to me couple year ago that afraidness but now just realize the step should I do. It is said that the love of a man for a man could be recognized very easily but it is very difficult to define it.

Additional Notes and Pointers…
When a man loves you, he puts on his top priority list. Open flirting might not always mean that the man loves you but the bestowal of more attention to what you say and what you like is a definite sign of interest and possible love. He would hasten to act all your requests, irrespective of the time of the day. Even if you call him at 2-00 a.m. in the morning, for example, and tell him that you have headache but out of stock of the medication, he would rush to a 24-hour drugstore, get the medicine and come to your place with that [so romantic, thank CHEPPY for doing that to me that time].
It is very difficult for a lot of men to show their love in an open manner. Even the most courageous man can become shy when it comes to the woman he loves. His speech would be halting and hesitant. He would start to say something, stop, think it over again and then utter what is in his mind. It is because he is just getting to know you better and still not sure whether you would like what he says. Even though men are usually more guarded in the initial stages, men are equally nervous around the men they love. However, the man who is in love with you will take the extra steps in pleasing you. He would groom his hair and care more about the way he dresses when he is with you. Such acts reveal that he wants to look good for you. Take a mental note of these signs. Also, when he talks to you in a low voice so that others would not be able to hear what he says, this mean that he wants the conversation to be exclusively between him and you and he wants to connect with you on an intimate level.

Last, but not least…
If he is into you, he will compliment you not only to you in person, but also to his friends. He will speak highly of you to others. He will go the extra mile in showing respect to your family (when he meets them). He will call you several times a day without any special reason, but just to hear your voice. Whenever he is talking about the future, he will tend to use words like “we”, “us”, and “our” rather than “I”, “me”, and “mine”. Use of such words is a sure sign of his planning a future long-term relationship with you.
When you leave and say goodbye after a date or get together, he will keep looking at your until you disappear from his view. When a man is into you, he will arrive early for a meeting and would leave after you, if he is not accompanying you to your place. Even when he drops you at your home, he will wait until you have entered the house and close the door before leaving. All these signs definitely show that the man is into you and desires a long-term relationship with you. Act positively and let not this chance pass you by.

However, here are a few tips that can help you see if the man of your interest is into you; 10 Signs
  1. The man can't seem to stop talking to you everyday.
  2. He is not dating anybody else except you.
  3. He starts treating your mother the way he treats his own mother.
  4. He starts using words like “we”, “our”, and “us” more during conversations with you, particularly when he is talking about the future.
  5. He is keeping a photo of yours on his desk.
  6. He starts keeping your favorite food items in his refrigerator.
  7. He bestows top priority to you over his work and other relationships.
  8. He keeps saying nice things about you when he talks to his friends.
  9. He does all your errands without the least hesitation.
  10. He keeps looking at you in the most admiring way even when other men are around

MAY YOU FIND THE BEST MAN IN YOUR LIFE, DUDE!! :D

[SLIMO with love-sessions.com]

Kolong "Flirt for Success Secrets"

We all know that flirting is a way for people to show their attraction to each other. in a gay world 90% man with couple ever flirt with other man, The question is how do we flirt for success? If you want to flirt and succeed in getting the person you want, then follow these secrets:

1.Eye Power
. If you spot a person who you are interested in attracting, then make sure to make distinct eye contact with him. Once the two of you make that contact, give them a smile that lets them know that you are very happy to see them and that you find them very attractive. You know the smile we are talking about! The smile that tells people just how confident and sexy you can be! Give them that fixed, luring eye that they just will not be able to resist!

2.Smiling Sexy is one of the most irresistible things about a person is their sexy smile! Make a habit of smiling a lot when you are out. You do not have to smile for no reason 24 hours a day of course, but do smile when you make eye contact with people. It will draw them to you, because people find smiling very confident and desirable.

The next time you see an attractive person you like, use your pearly whites as bait! If you wish to succeed in hinting all the right hints and getting the reaction you are looking for, then Playful Humor is the way to go! You can apply this on a person you just met, or on a date. Pick a good time in your conversation to lightly pick on him or her about something or make light jokes at your expense! People find it a turn on when you are able to laugh at yourself and make them laugh. Avoid making critical jokes about other people though, for it will only make you look insensitive and you will not succeed.

3.Touchy Feely is something you should only do if the both of you are on a comfortable level. Doing a little touchy feely on a date will put you on the right track! It lets your date know that they are wanted and desired and they will most likely respond to you with some touchy feely as well! Do it gently and never go overboard. For example, if you are at dinner, you can eventually gently place your hand on his or her hand and then smile. See how they respond.

4.Bring up Sexy Talk, the one main subject that men in common in the first place lust and sex! Do not get too detailed or pornographic, but just start by asking what turns him on in a person. If the respond comfortably, the two of you may take the conversation as far as the both of you wish it to! Or if you see someone who catches your eye, say something such as, You have a very captivating smile or Your eyes are so hypnotic and inviting. Choose your words wisely, for you want to please them and have them desire you, not get offended by you!

5.If you want to be a successful flirt and attract your date, then Take Charge! Never wait for them to take the lead in a date. In fact, you will be making it easier on them by taking over as host and that will really impress them and draw them even closer to you. Make sure you know a few good and interesting topics to bring up before your date, so that you do not run out of ideas and get stuck! However, you do not want to over talk either, otherwise you will come as a chatterbox and turn him off.

6.You need to be a good Listening Skills as well! Everyone likes to be heard and paid attention to, so be a good date by giving your date that attention they crave so dearly for. By being a good listener, you will prove to your date that you are indeed very interested in them and it will make them open up to you even more!

7.If you see someone you find attractive, a good way to succeed getting to know him is by staring at him and Getting Busted for it! You have to get caught; otherwise they will never know you had your eye on them. Do not stare at him in a sense that could scare off, but do it mysteriously, and when he catches you doing so, just give him a friendly and bright smile.

8.If he smile back, you can go up and say hello. Giving a sweet Wink is another successful and obvious way of flirting! Just do it once after making eye contact with that certain person and see how he react. If he react positively and you wish to pursue further with the flirting, then you can say hello and ask him how they are doing today, and ask them for a name. Last but not least, it is also essential to Compliment the person you have a particular interest in attracting. By complimenting him, you will make them feel special and attractive and this is exactly what you must do if you wish to be a successful flirt and expert. Examples of compliments would be making a nice comment on his hair, clothing, perfume or cologne, eyes, smile and so on. Avoid making comments on his body parts, because you will most likely offend him and come off as a pervert, which is not what you are aiming for! By following these secrets, you can hardly go wrong in getting to know the people you lust to meet!

HAVE A NICE FLIRTING!!!

[dedicate for My Denny, SLIMO with love-sessions.com]